Loser Leech Club

Ok, I have a smart, funny gal pal who seems to attract men who should be in what I coined the term LOSER LEECH CLUB. She just wants to find a decent guy and love who she is attracted to. She is a starving artist and has lots of love to give and talent too. She is extremely funny and has a heart of gold. You cannot miss her in the room, as she is very charismatic and strongly believes in achieving her goals. Though right now times seem very hard, I am sure she will achieve it.
The reason I call these men loser leeches is simple enough, they initially seem like guys you want to be with. After spending more time they drain her of all her love, support, encouragement, empathy and bank account (not a good thing as she is a starving artist) and they are leeches as they suck suck the life force out of her. Plus their outer packaging is very attractive which makes it hard for her to let go. Or their brief moments of brilliance (treating her nice -when she should be treated with respect ALL the time) once in a blue moon.
The last one was the last straw for me. He is handsome and tall and talented actor who goes to therapy. He had the gall to tell my good friend that she should manipulate and use people to get to the top. Furthermore he chastised her that she needed to wake up and listen to her because he goes to THERAPY. Now how high is this guy or what?

Furthermore he has the gall to tell her they are dating and then goes on dates with other gals. When she finds out and wants to break up he gets upset. Once they are just chilling as friends he has the nerve to tell her about his dates (stupidly or not he mentions the time it happened and it is during the time during their "supposed courtship"). How clueless can a guy be?

Or the prior one who was noncommittal but knew how to turn on the charm. He was very verbose on the phone and acted very effusive about wanting to see my lovely friend. But once he saw her in person (not email or phone) he was a totally different person. He did not talk and expected my friend to be on constant entertainment mode. No fair and he could not even hold a decent conversation. Hello some mental stimulation to the brain and basic communication is nice when you are thinking of dating someone. But alas this scenario was one sided and my friend wisened up quickly. I think it must have been that European charm that lured my gal pal--the Italian accent always does.

Maybe it is the environment she is in or I think she should trust her gut instinct more. Plus keep surrounding herself with people who love , care and are supportive to her!
There should be an end to this loser leech club. Hon you know who you are, I love you and you deserve the best! Can't wait to see you soon!