Friday, November 30, 2007
Smith College Asian Affinity group-----first event last night
Boston Teams having a good year overall


Tom Brady (Getty Images)

(Boston Red Sox website)
Series 7----musings
I have been asked if I want to be a financial planner, truthfully I fell into working with my boss who is a CFP(TM) and Financial Advisor. But I knew after talking to a few good friends, getting a certification would not hurt. This is the big first test for the industry.
Can I say, after going to the halfway mark it is a bit painful especially the lovely three chapters on "BONDS." I have started to do some flash cards, if I want to make them for all the terms that is almost 1,000! I have been asking a lot of people their personal experiences. I have talked to two people today---one studied for 6 months and passed (but she took a class, has a kid, and was starting a new job) all at the same time. The other guy, took it for kicks and failed. But he studied for four months 2 hours every day after work and half a day every weekend on Saturdays/Sundays. After hearing those testimonials, it is making me reconsider my aggressive under 2 month regimen.
Plus my boss will not pay for the test UNLESS I pass. (He wants to put the pressure on to make sure I pass. Then again it costs $250 for the exam each time not including a good $250 in fees on top of it. So I can see why he wants me to pass on the first go.) I have a trip planned end of January. Now I am rethinking my strategy. I have heard some good advice and after taking the first PROGRESS exam I had the harsh reality. I have to get to know the "laws", "bonds", "formulas" well as they are my current weak points. I will know more once I finish all the chapters to go back over the concepts.
One key word that came up time and time again, "PRACTICE", "PRACTICE" on the practice exams and do not get caught up just memorizing the answers but actually know the concepts. It makes sense. After hearing that, I feel a bit better. This is the time of year it is hard to be TRULY anti-social. I have heard testimonials from others saying they really sequestered themselves from their social lives while preparing for the test.
I think that reality sunk in for me, when I talked the the licensing department today with the broker/dealer. I had to fill out the forms and sign my life away. I get a 120 day window once I pass in the (Uniform Forms 4) U4. Phew! I had to detail the last 10 years of my life residential and employment histories. Luckily for me, I actually remembered it all and did NOT have to supply any addresses (this helped a lot!).
I must say the last thing I want to do is study after a full day's work. I have tried studying at work but there is too many distractions while my boss is around. I find the library helpful I just dislike schlepping the BIG STC binders with me.
But I guess this would be a great certification once I get it. It will open doors and opportunities and responsibilities for me working with my boss.
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Two Time NASCAR Winner Helio Castroneves wins Season 5 of Dancing with the Stars





(pics from ABC.com)Sunday, November 25, 2007
Tday 2007 wrap up...
Today I found out at work that I get Friday off! I am psyched! Last year I had to work. But then again I am studying for the series 7 compared to last year I was heading to Asia for long holiday.
Work is filled with setting up for the next few weeks, catching up on ACT, and organizing.
I am lucky to go to Shiki to introduce this place to her roomie Deb and BetsN. I love that Hien loves this place! Even her difficult to please fiancee loves Shiki too after she surprised him for his birthday! I love their kaiseki lunch!
We had a wonderful meal filled with great food! The soba salad, seaweed salad, spicy tuna and california maki and other dishes were incredible! The company and food were a nice ending of a short work week.
Then I headed home to spend time for a later dinner with the folks and my sis. We went to our usual chinese restaurant for dinner. I did not have too much as I had a great meal at Shiki. We got a full meal but the oyster dish was so delicious I had to have a few bites of it.
We went to Super88 (local Asian Market) and I got to see "buddha hands" for the first time. My dad he had not seen this fruit since he was a boy in China. I loved that there was some "dragon fruit" or "Asian Pears" from Korea. I love the variety of foods I can get at Super88.
Thursday 11.22.07
I get a ride to Allston/Brighton BK for the 9am pickup to Mohegan Sun. But my folks were not happy and thought I should pick up the bus in Chinatown. I was able to pick up the 9:30am. But I must admit it was very disorganized. There was no person around to ask questions and I had a few people asking me about the bus situation. There were four buses to take. But there was a rhyme and reason but for someone such as myself --- a first time taking this bus to Mohegan Sun. I finally figured out everything after finding a person in charge.
Once I figured out my bus, I was all set. The bus set off on time and we did hit some traffic. I was able to see some TVB dramas. I haven't watched one in a long time since watching the Myolie Wu and Andy Hui version of "Bridget Jones". I caught the ending episode of "Fathers and Sons" and the first 2 episodes of "Steps".
I tend to like dancing shows/programs since growing up. Though the story was not that excited, I did enjoy the ballroom dancing scenes in this drama. It was good practice reading simplified characters with Cantonese.
I got to the casino at 11:30am and I got to wander around trying to figure out my lunch plans. I decided on getting the buffet. (I figured out it would be good to get options and choices.) I tried some great food - Italian Wedding Soup, cranberry risotto, spaghetti squash, Asian cucumber salad, gnocchi, Pumpkin Ginger soup, Pumpkin Pie etc. I was surprised how overall the food selection was good.
With the time, I decided to get into the concert a bit earlier. I am so glad that I decided to because I got a good seat as a result. Granted I had to go through strict security, check in my bag, but it was good to just relax and wait for the concert. The whole concert lasted for two and a half hours! I had a lot of fun!
The ride back, it was a bit confusing. Though we were at gate 18, there were a good 3 buses that came and went before our bus. Luckily I remembered our tour leader and I checked to read what was written on the front of the bus. But we were not that late about 15 minutes as there were many buses leaving at the same time.
The return bus ride was uneventful. I enjoyed watching 2 more episodes of "Steps". The gentleman next to me was snoring. I did notice whenever you take Chinese tour trips a tip is expected. It was ok to give the $2. I liked that there were a few stops to drop off people -Copley, South Cove, Kneeland and Allston.
I got home by almost 8pm. Hung out with my sis, studied a bit. Cemented plans to meet with JMM to meet for drinks after his Thanksgiving dinner with his family.
We met up and had a nice conversation. I thought the bar drinks were affordable at Fugakyu. I had not seen him since he left 2005. He has a better memory than me. The last time we hung out was dinner at Petit Robert Bistro (one of my fave restaurants in the area). I just remembered El Peleon. We talked about her lives and realize as you get older there are certain needs and expectations compared to before.
One of them is stability. It is great to want to do your dream job that feeds your soul. But not everyone is lucky to have the job that is able to pay your bills and feed your soul. Also we agreed that at the stage of life we are at, we are also aware that our pals are beyond us in their own lives.
Funny how married friends with kids mean well and want everyone to join them in their bliss. But there is something to be said to be single and be more self aware and understand yourself.
Friday 11.23.07
Today, I did a little studying. Then my sis and I went to a leisurely lunch at L'Espalier in the Back Bay (moving locations in 7 months). I had always wanted to eat here and I finally got to eat here. We had an amazing meal and spent 2 hours linger over our 5 course lunch degustation.
My sis and I were not interested in participating in the Black Friday shopping. I had heard that people were lining up at midnight at the Wrentham outlets already and all the stores were open at 7am.
After our great meal, I got some more study supplies to make more flash cards. I went to the Boston Public Library to study until my meeting time with BetsN. I chose the periodical room. It reminded me of the one back in college I used to frequent on the third floor at Nielson Library on campus.
It is much colder than it has been in a long time.
I made it to Carlisle thanks to BetsN. Her current digs was cool. I got to help out prep and met a lot of people and her friends. It was a great "potluck" party. Met some cool people, hung out, cooked and bonded with many people. Plus I got to crash in the lovely guest room which is much nicer than my current set up which I joked to my hostess.
Saturday 11.24.07
Caught up on some reading, had a great breakfast and tried some cool Republic Honeydew green tea. We waited for everyone to get together to go to Wrentham together. En route to the car up the driveway, I did a tumble over a branch. Unfortunately it has to be on the bum left ankle I had sprained less than a month earlier. Just my luck and it was not fun. I still decided to go with them to Wrentham. BetsN told me that I should get a wheelchair. I was against it. But after limping and being in pain, I realized it was a good idea to get one. It was free to borrow as long as you fill out a form and give a form of identification.
I ended up being the "bag lady" holding every one's purchases. One good thing to think positively, I did not spend a lot. Being stuck on the chair, you notice people are generally really nice and helpful. But a lot of spaces and stores are not wheel chair accessible. I found myself sitting outside in the cold a few times as I did not want to deal with being stuck in a corner. At times I thought I should have had my flashcards with me.
We took a brief break and got something at Village Cafe---loaded potato soup and phily cheese steak calzone. Once fed, we all decided to do more window shopping. We were done by3pm. As we drove out, there were horrendous long lines trying to enter Wrentham all the way from the highway. We were lucky that the lines into Wrentham were nonexistent at 11am when we arrived.
We got back to Boston by 4pm. It was great that I had some leftovers to eat and I set off for a lot of flashcards to make.
Sunday, November 25
Spent the day catching up and making flash cards as the ankle is still not good. I get to catch up on my fave shows thanks to "ON DEMAND" and some of them were expiring soon so just in time!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Dancing with the Stars-----semis last night
Helio and Julianne
Jennie and Derek
Marie and Jonathan
Maksim and Mel B.(pics from ABC)
The fifth season of Dancing with the Stars on ABC has been a smash hit and this year's contestants are fierce! Last night was the nail biting semi's where the final tallies of scores to see who were the final three to make it and who was cut. (Usually it is only two couples in the finals but not this year!)
With impeccable dancing from all contestants Mel B (Scary Spice), Helio Castroneves (NASCAR driver), Marie Osmond and Jennie Garth (Beverly Hills 90210) one had to go. All brought their "A" game! Alas, Jennie Garth got cut. She has come a long way from being not so confident on her dancing ability to getting perfect 10's on Monday night. In fact, 10's were freely thrown around on Monday night's show. But they were given for good reason because the level of competition, showmanship, skill was outstanding!
I have been watching this show on and off for a few seasons. But it has been great to watch when I can. Now I realized I can watch the whole season on http://www.abc.com/ online if I want to. Hmmm tempting but I should be studying!
This season's competition has definitely had some interesting moments from surprise eliminations such as top contender Sabrina Bryan got ousted a few weeks ago. Many thought she would make the finale, but she did not get the fans support or love. Or the surprise fainting spell Marie Osmond had during a live performance during one episode. (Fortunately she was ok but still it brought a scare to everyone and made for good tv for many of the entertainment channels saying over 30 million viewers saw it happen live!).
Plus I am psyched to see the women doing very well this year! The only man standing is Helio Castroneves. Usually no female celebrity contender has made it. This year it is not one but two women Mel B and Marie Osmond.
Happy Thanksgiving to All!

(wikipedia)
"The First Thanksgiving", painted by Jean Leon Gerome Ferris (1863–1930).
I wanted to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving!
Per the weather channel, today's weather is not so great in many regions in the USA. Today is among the HEAVIEST travel dates in year for the USA. I am glad I am not traveling anywhere. Other than heading to Mohegan Sun tomorrow via bus, I am staying put in Beantown.
Tomorrow (TDAY) is also my bro's bday this year too! Every few years his bday coincides with Thanksgiving. As usual, he cannot celebrate it with us as he is abroad in Asia outside of Seoul. But alas, Thanksgiving to our family is not a big deal. Other holidays are more important and in particular Chinese New Year.
Tonight, I am eating with the folks who are coming in dinner. So I will see them after work and catching up with Hien/BetsN and her roomie. We are going to hang out at Shiki. I will help them along with the menu as Hien wants to explore more and Bets is an awesome foodie friend!
I found out yesterday that my boss is letting me have the day off. I think a big factor is that I am studying for the "series 7" might have something to do with it. Though the market is open for abbreviated hours (9:30-1pm) I am psyched to have the unexpected day off! I only have taken days off if I really need to---family obligations/injuries. I don't get many holidays so this is a treat. Last year, I did not have the day off. Then again, I was heading to Asia for along time might have something to do with it.
Tomorrow I am heading to see Ah-Mei 阿妹 /張惠妹 in concert! I am excited! I love her voice and singing. Granted I am behind in her hits and songs but I think it will be a good experience. I have to get up early to grab the shuttle. I will study, grab lunch, study, attend the concert, study, hitch the 5:15pm shuttle back to Boston. It will be my second Chinese concert. My first one was a few years back with Jacky Cheung 張學友 (Hok Yau) (one of the sky kings).
Tentative plans to hang with a friend I have not seen in a long long time since he went to Asia-Singapore/Shanghai now lives in the Bay Area for Pay Pal. JMM is a cool guy and used to model too. I cannot say I know many models. (I do know of NKO who now is in the Seattle area too.) Both NKO and JMM are cool people.
Friday, I have some study targets that I hope I hit. It is going to be a nice long weekend. I realize I have to make up a bunch of ushering gigs due to my bum ankle a few weeks back. (Most inopportune time with 5 sessions that one weekend too!).
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Dramatic "The Bachelor" finale last night on ABC
The Brotherhood----recent episode

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BidQsymTjjk
Granted this blog is on Asian entertainment mainly, I wanted to point out that it is good to have Asian representation on shows. But also we need more VARIETY of characters in shows. I find that Asian men are typecasted in only a few roles criminals, martial artists, geeks etc.
I want to see more Asian men and women on TV! The American media does not accurately portray real life.
Margot at the Wedding (2007)

http://www.margotatthewedding.com/
Last night, my good friend DW invited me to see a sneak peak of the new film "Margot at the Wedding" with Jennifer Jason Leigh, Nicole Kidman and Jack Black. I was hoping for a great film as I have always loved Jennifer Jason Leigh and Nicole Kidman. I was curious how Jack Black would hold up against these two great actresses. This movie is the follow up film for Noah Baumbach.
Synopsis (wikipedia)
The film has been described as an intimate, character-driven, domestic comedy-drama. It stars Nicole Kidman and Baumbach's real-life wife Jennifer Jason Leigh as sisters named Margot and Pauline, and also features Jack Black, John Turturro and Ciarán Hinds. Kidman's character, Margot, is a successful but neurotic writer who brings her 11-year-old son (played by newcomer Zane Pais) to spend a weekend visiting her free-spirited sister Pauline (Leigh) on the eve of her wedding to Black's character. Margot disapproves of Pauline's choice of fiancé, which causes tension between the two sisters.
Thoughts:
Though there was strong actresses and acting I could not get into the plot. I was not very interested in these characters and people on the screen. As I walked out of the movie, I was thinking to myself, I am glad I did not pay to see this. I also overheard many others not being very enthused for this film either.
Out of a scale of 10 stars I give this film a 3. I would not recommend people to go pay to see this film at all.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Project Runaway(Season Four) is BACK tomorrow!
(credit: USA Today)
Monday, November 12, 2007
Museum and art musings




(credit: wikipedia/bruce schulman) I never took art 100 and I kind of regret it. In college, a lot of students took that survey class. The only art class I took was the Art of Japan for my major. Since then, I learned about art by visiting many art exhibits and museums all over the world. I love reading the commentaries, listening to the audio guides and have found out what I like in art. One big reason I started looking at art was the first time I went into the Smith College art museum (now I know has a very good art collection for a small college in the USA). I had never stepped foot into the museum until one day someone I knew and had an interest in was at the musuem during my sophomore year. From then on, I slowly acquired my knowledge or art from visiting museums and art exhibits all around the world.
I have been known to make special trips because experiences are important to me. Such as a trip to NYC to go to the MET to see a rare Faberge Eggs exhibit and art exhibit the first of its kind the treasures from the 國立故宮博物院National Palace Museum in Taipei while I was a student. I have enjoyed great exhibits at the MFA in Boston with Monet, Ansel Adams, John Singer Sargeant as some great exhibits that come to mind. Or the ukiyo-e 浮世絵, prints at the Art Institute or Klimpts in Austria.
The Louvre is overwhelming but I love the D’Orsay in Paris a remodeled train station, the Victoria and Albert in London to the Academy with the David sculpture. The Rodin Museum in Paris or the Vincent Van Gogh in Amsterdam are recent great ones. There is just a plethora of great artwork in Germany, Poland, Italy as well as sculpture which was amazing.
The architecture and artwork I have seen throughout my travels have been great too. I really want to go to Turkey thanks to the Treasures of the Topaki Palace exhibit I caught at the Corcoran Gallery in DC a few years back really piqued my interest. There is so much amazing art work, sculpture and tapestries that exist I want to see and explore. One great place I have yet to visit is the Hermitage in St. Petersburg.
There is such wonderful art, tapestries, photos, museums, castles, sculptures etc in this world to enjoy and see. I always find myself wherever I go trying to visit the homes of famous or local residents, attending shows and concerts or checking out the local museums. One of these days I want to audit a survey of all the world's art. I think that would be fun.
Saturday, NOV 10, 2007 in NYC continued
(seurat drawing-MOMA)Then I go through the permanent collections and realize I do like Modern art. I used to confuse Modern Art with Contemporary art. Overall I enjoy Modern art but I do not understand the more abstract pieces or seem less obvious to understand such as Cy Trombley and Jackson Pollack are two I don’t understand. I enjoy Mattisse, Signac, Seurat, Picasso (some periods), Alexander Calder or even Alberto Giacometti. I decide to snap a few pics and famous pieces throughout the museum. I am having a ball and I have plenty of time wandering around the 6 floors.
After reading the Village Voice I decide to rest at midnight which is an early night.
Visit to KIKU from Boston to NYC 11.10.07

Ozukuri or “thousand bloom” are so named because a single plant has been trained to produce up to 300 or more perfect flowers on a complex frame or scaffold.
Kengai or cascades feature small-flowered chrysanthemums similar to wild, uncultivated varieties. The flowing display is grown on and supported by a bamboo and wire framework that can stretch the branches six-and-a-half feet away from the plant’s roots.
Kiku (chrysanthemum in Japanese) require expert knowledge and constant attention over a period of six to twelve months to grow into the strange and wonderful shapes on display. Under the watchful eyes and skilled hands of Botanical Garden horticulturists, each plant is meticulously watered, pinched, staked, and tied to achieve these spectacular results.
Friday, November 09, 2007
Speed Reading People Workshop
History of SpeedReading People,® LLC
The SpeedReading People system is based on the same model of psychological type originated by Swiss Psychologist Carl Jung and American personality type expert Isabel Myers. This model is used daily in 89 of the Fortune 100 companies for team building, management training, career development, and conflict resolution. (source: speeedreadingpeople.com)
The company Speed Reading People was profiled in the local Boston Globe this past July 2007. The VP of the company Rob Toomey came and spoke to a packed room last night in the Back Bay Offices of Deloitte. He basically told the audience there are four types of temperaments and with the aid of video interviews and a page of information regarding the four types of temperaments, Rob walked everyone through the different temperment types within the brief allotted time. I enjoyed his comments while giving the presentation saying that he was formerly a lawyer. He shared that he and his wife both have different temperments but because they know about it, they can better handle each other's communications styles. But he did mention it is not uncommon for people to see they can be two types of temperments and not pigeon holed to just purely one. In addition, people must also consider the person's cultural identity when trying to figure out their communication temperament. If you cannot figure out immediately, over time it will naturally come out.
Of course, there are that 5% of the world's population that defy any categorizations Rob warned but overall the world is full of SP, NF (go to the website for more info: http://www.speedreadingpeople.com/). Famouse SP such as Warren Buffet can develop skills that are not natural to their temperament : such as his great skills of predicting the future and forecasting that enabled him to be the financial powerhouse he is today.
This is just one of many personality assessments that enable others to better understand others and themselves to apply themselves in work, life and personal self growth. Those who are aware of Myers-Briggs will easily grasp the basic four temperments.
It was an informative professional development workshop.
Sweeney Todd the Musical
Sweeney Todd opened on Broadway at the Uris Theatre on March 1, 1979. The musical played for 577 performances. The story centers on the character of Sweeney Todd, formerly known as Benjamin Barker, who returns from the penal colonies in Australia, where he has spent fifteen years on false charges. When he learns from Mrs. Lovett, whose meat pies are the worst in London, that his wife poisoned herself after being raped by Judge Turpin, and his daughter is the ward of Judge Turpin, who imprisoned him, he vows revenge. The two become conspirators in a dark plot that results in mass murder, booming business for Lovett's shop, and ultimately tragedy.
Wednesday, November 07, 2007
Ogokbap (Five-Grain Rice) 오곡밥 五穀

Ogokbap (Five-Grain Rice) 오곡밥 五穀
Although rice is the staple food for Koreans, they also use other grains. They often combine four other grains with glutinous and regular rice (most commonly glutinous sorghum, glutinous millet, dried black beans, and dried sweet beans). Each are cleaned and soaked separately then cooked until the grains have expanded and are well done. The various grains used differ between areas. Koreans tended to use those grains that they planned to plant in the coming year. In the past, Ogokpap was also a substitute of Yakshik for commoners who could not afford to have the ingredients like jujubes, chestnuts, and pine nuts for Yakshik on the first full moon day. Koreans also believe that Ogokpap must be shared by at least 3 different families to bring good luck in the coming year. ( credit: www.koreanrestaurantguide.com)
Series 7 test preparation
Individuals who want to enter the securities industry to sell any type of securities must take the Series 7 examination—formally known as the General Securities Representative Examination. Individuals who pass the Series 7 are eligible to register with all self-regulatory organizations to trade.
NASD administers the Series 7 examination. (per US Securities & Exchange Commission)
So I told my boss I was willing to take the Series 7 test. It sure has been a while since I have taken a standardized test. The materials and experts say you need at least a minimum of 80-100 hours of study before taking this 6 hour test. You need a 70% to pass and that means you can only get 75 incorrect answers to pass. Never in a million years did I think I would take the Series 7 test. But I am going to have to start buckling down and reorganizing my schedule.
Let the studying begin!
WGBH Masterpiece Theater -Complete Jane Austen 2008
It was a fabulous time and event on a lovely fall day!
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Coming: The Complete Jane Austen (pbs.org)
Looking ahead into 2008, Masterpiece suggests you flag January 13th in your datebook. That's when "The Complete Jane Austen" begins airing on Sunday nights, with new presentations of Persuasion, Northanger Abbey, Mansfield Park and Sense and Sensibility. The lineup also includes Emma, the acclaimed film starring Kate Beckinsale, and Pride and Prejudice*, the Emmy award-winning miniseries that made Colin Firth a heartthrob. Miss Austen Regrets, a true story based on Jane Austen's own letters and diaries, will also be a part of the four-month marathon.
*A production of BBC Television and BBC Worldwide Americas, Inc. in association with A&E Networks. Masterpiece Theatre's broadcast of Pride and Prejudice is the first in the U.S. other than on A&E Television Networks.
Silk Road Gala 2007
Delectable wasabi crips
Yummy coconut bread with flank steak and mongolian sauce with baby bok choy
Henna design on my hand
Silk Road Attendees getting Henna designs on their hands
Dining room at the Copley Marriott for the 2007 Silk Road Gala
The stage
Silk Road Gala 2007
Diversity of Asia
SAVE THE DATE!Saturday, November 3, 2007Boston Marriott Copley Place Hotel
Get involved with the Silk Road Gala! Consider volunteer, sponsorship, and other opportunities. The Silk Road Gala is the annual fundraising benefit for the Asian Task Force Against Domestic Violence. It began in 1992 when the Task Force needed to raise funds to support its Asian women’s shelter, the first and only one in New England. Donations raised through the gala support the programs of the Asian Task Force Against Domestic Violence, a private, non-profit organization, which provides emergency shelter, a multilingual hotline, stabilization services, support, and advocacy to over 200 battered Asian families every year. Staff and community members work together using outreach and education to create an environment of intolerance towards domestic violence in Asian communities.
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I attended the Silk Road Gala with my sis on a very bad day last Saturday. The remainder of a hurricane made it very rainy and high winds in Boston area. My folks were hit with 90 mph winds and a tree fell on their home. Luckily they had minor damage and three days of no electricity. The Cape was caught with many fallen trees and NSTAR the electric company were working non stop to restore electricity for everyone.
Luckily in Boston, we missed the brunt of the rain and wind before heading out for the Silk Road gala. The event was very nice and the food was excellent! From the wasabi crips, coconut rice, flank steak with mongolian sauce we loved it all. My sis and I had a grand ole time! The three women who did acting monologues did a great job sharing stories of actual domestic violence victims. My sis and I got henna tattoos as well, hers was on her wrist as her work is strict on mustaches, tattoos and anything that can alter ones appearance.
Plus I sprained my ankle YET again by missing the step in front of my work place. AIYA!



