The weather when I went on my adventures in the fall was cold but the off season made it great as I got to see more places with less crowds. One great aspect was the fact a few times at the hostels, I would get a bed in a 8-10 bed dorm or 4 bed room and be the only person for that night(Berlin, Salzburg, Florence, Munich to name a few I was by myself).
I did find tiring is the constant having to worry about your belongings and valuables. My valuables were my passport, ATM and credit cards, journals (reservations, travel tips, travel schedule, travel plans and people's contacts) and of course my money. Sometimes the places I crashed at did not have a locker so you had to make do without one. I had heard some horror stories of people getting robbed etc. I just think it is common sense and do not look like a walking target. Suffice to say I ended up being fine and with no problems. I did encounter people who got their stuff stolen. On my first overnight train ride (out of two) en route from Berlin to Warsaw, I met two women from Belarus. They had just traveled to Rome and had a blast. Their trip had a big hiccup, both their passports were stolen. When we entered the border from Germany and Poland, they encountered much troubles. The makeshift passport from their embassy when they were in Italy tended to be a bit problematic.
***TIP--I tend to be a planner. I always make a photo copy of the first page of my passport. I keep two copies with me, one with a trusted friend/family member along with my itinerary as well. I also brought along and gave a copy of all the US embassies in all 9 of the countries I was visiting---website, address and phone number just in case. The US Passport is similar to gold. Everyplace I went, I had no problems when crossing borders and I did not get any hassles after showing it.
Environments for each hostel varied as well. I tended to start out my search looking for various recommendations from other backpackers when I was traveling and on line. Definitely some where better than others in terms of location (ease to get to the train station or bus stations) as you are lugging a ton of stuff and you want to drop it down ASAP! My poor shoulders and back got a beating during this trip. I learned to appreciate the lower bunk (I dislike climbing to the top bunk). It pays to get in early (so I can put in this request). Water pressure for showers is important as I found it to be troublesome to shower and wash your hair having to constantly push a button (every ten seconds with suds in your eyes). Or having a good breakfast (rules say you cannot brown bag the food) I tended to so I could save on having to buy lunch (especially while out and about where food tended to cost alot at various museums). Atmosphere is another component I found important. Mamas Hostel (Krakow, Poland) was my fave. The only downside was the water pressure (yes the place you have to press the button constantly) that aside, it had the most convivial and best atmosphere. There were many stairs to get to the hostel, but they provided lockers and information about touring around the area. One thing, free internet was a plus! I tended to write back to family and friends (sometimes I did not write to them as internet was EXPENSIVE!). I made a few new friends. In fact one of them, Lihan visited me over New Years. We went to Auschwitz together (I did not want to venture there by myself) and had a great big Polish feast as well (tons of sausage, pork, crackling, beer, vodka and perogies.
All the constant walking, I did really wear down my hiking boots and sneakers. It was good that I got to alternate between the two as I was walking a few miles everyday (blazing a path through every place I visited amongst the various attractions and numerous museums). The worst part was not all the stairs, but when I fell down en route to the train station at 4:30am to catch the train then shuttle to the Bonn Airport. I was lucky I did not twist my ankle. (PHEW!) Thank goodness for the many cafes I saw so I could rest after a full day of walking around.
Planning my travel "attack" of a city/town was interesting before every place. I would be on the trains and read all three sources of travel guides (each provided varying information). I would write down the highlights, then visit the information desk at each destination (a must with free maps/attractions information etc), and what I wanted to do based on the schedule of times places were open. The most difficult place to plan to visit was Florence (Firenze). Alot of the famous sites were closed and open certain hours and days. I spent three days of active visiting the popular sites (I avoided paying the reservation fees to the Ufizzi and Academy (Michelangelo's David) due to it being low season and a minor wait in line. Palazzo Pitti was a gem and I managed to bump into my head resident at Smith (Head resident is similar to dorm advisor) my first year there. Behind the gardens, I did see the beautiful, rustic rolling hills of Tuscany (Tuscano).
Once I had my plan of attack, I broke it down by accessibility to transportation/walking and geography within the city. I found it to be very helpful for me. I got to maximize my time visiting each place and checking out MUST TRY foods/drinks as well. From the to die for Sacher Torte and Apple Strudel with warm vanilla sauce in Salzburg to stuffed cabbage and goulash in Budapest it was a fun dining experience. One experience, I will never forget was standing on my legs for over two and half hours to hear the Vienna Boys Choir to sing Sunday mass under standing room only (meaning free and no reservations). We got to the place to wait 8am, doors opened in the church 9am, started mass at 9:30 and ended at 10:30am but for all your troubles, you do not see the Vienna Boys Choir (the sing in a balcony overlooking the church way above the audience). Their voices did sound angelic and we did get to glimpse some of the choir as they ran to get to the church (while we waited to line up for the standing room only spots).
Going to performing arts, I managed to snag an inexpensive last minute ticket to Romeo and Juliette Ballet in the Opera House in Budapest for 800 forint (roughly $4USD!). The next day I took a tour of the place and it cost me 2300 forint (almost trip the cost $12USD!). It was beautifully done. People dressed up and the balcony seat was nice but a bit cramped with wood chairs. The performance lasted three hours but there was an intermission for every 1 hour of performing time. I did catch some performances in Prague (but they were costlier in comparison). I went to a nice Jazz performance of Irving Berlin's classic tunes to a Don Giovanni marionette performance--both were different but fun!
One thing I overcame traveling alone, it was not that bad. I was fearful of it. But it allowed me much time for introspection. I was more open to meeting people and chatting with others. I had many a great conversation with my train companions as a result. I met a dancer who was en route from Brescia to Milan to a student who was going from Salzburg to Munich for her internship. One interesting person I met was an older lady (en route from Vienna to Budapest). She did not speak any English and she was from Yugoslavian going to Greece but spoke German. I dug out my phrase book and said, "How are you? What is your name" . All the other phrases in the book were not conducive for conversation. Then we proceeded to have an animated conversation using hand gestures and I tried using simple English and pointing to things. One thing I read, one travel book advised bringing some personal photos and post cards of your hometown. So I whipped out this mini photo album. All of a sudden, she looked very a happy. She then proceeded to show me her family photos of her son and grand children. I make collages, I was tearing up papers and brochures and she offered her scissors to make the process easier for me.
Communicating with others is usually not difficult for me, but I was nervous when planning this trip. I do not speak any Czech, German, Polish, Italian (other than "grazie and prego"), Hungarian! But after realizing --talk slow, know a few simple phrases in the native language (I found I got alot of smiles when I did that), and keep your words simple . Also if the word you use is not understand, use an even simpler one! For example, as Americans we say vacation, but when I used that term, I got blank looks. I then used the the term "holiday" and everyone understood me.
Talk about using the language skills that you know, I had an interesting exchange with a fellow from Korea when I was staying in Cesky Krumlov. A jewel of a small town good for only an afternoon/1 day trip (hopefully it is a nice day). His English was not very good his Japanese was excellent (he had lived there for a few years). So we had a conversation of Japanese and English. I took Japanese in college but I did not have his fluency. I could say some simplistic Japanese but reverted back to English. I mentioned, I wished my Japanese was as good as his. He wished his English was as good as mine. *sigh The usual the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. But I must admit English is more usual when traveling all over. The likelihood of others understanding is higher. My friend from Chile said the same thing, knowing English is more helpful. She was surprised I could speak a smattering of Spanish. My Mandarin improved in Prague by chatting with Grace who was there traveling alone around the city. I guess as they say, practice does make perfect (or at least better!).
I found one of the many best experiences I had was talking to the locals and if you are lucky to have friends to travel with or visit it is the best. Many strangers made my visit so wonderful to their country! I found the Poles to be very warm and inviting! My host Marton ---who rents out rooms in Budapest is nestled in a very good location in city for night life and eating! The Greindl family were wonderful to me making me enjoy and love Bavaria (I happened to be in Straubing and Regensburg)! Melanie and Eddie made York very wonderful and I want to visit again! Or Claire taking me around Surbiton and meeting her son Ben--he was a charmer! Or the hospitality of Susanne and Gion driving into Zurich and we had a lovely lunch at a restaurant on a hill overlooking the city and lake. The food and company were superb! My old roomie Guy and his wife Karen were great hosts when I visited them in Northern Italy. We went wine tasting, took an afternoon into Venice, I had some locally hunted meat, great gelato and cheese and toured around the local towns. It was lovely.Guy told me he learned to appreciate wines more after living almost two years in Italy. In addition, the harder the cheese the better it tastes. I must admit I do agree!
Jennifer from California was a great "Sound of Music" tour buddy when I was in Salzburg. We hit it off we decided to venture around Salzburg together and had a lovely dinner at a very "hard to find " place that has been around since Charlemagne's time!!!!! I also met someone from Chile and we had a blast the day we spent together from the Vienna Boy Choir, Sperl Cafe, Hofsburg Palace, Sissi's Museum, Belvedere Museum (Gustave Klimt prints were here--now these prints are going back to the original owners descendant in California after a court ruling in January 2006), Museum of all the royal furniture topped with an outing (one hour by tram outside the city) to the winery restaurants. Nadia was a great pal and we bonded in Berlin during our walking tour. We hung out for two days and then one day while in London to (the end of my trip and hers as well). Lihan and I met at Mamas Hostel . We had a nice conversation and kept in touch since meeting.
Having an open mind and a good attitude helps when traveling because if I was traveling with a friend, I would not have met as many people as I did. It is easy to be with our friend/travel buddy and close yourself off. Plus I had to be more open and forthcoming sometimes to talk to others.
Six weeks is a long time to be away from home, I would crave hearing English. I saw four films while I was away. I caught "Pride and Prejudice" in Vienna by chance (and skipped dinner to watch it). In Florence, I stumbled upon seeing "Elizabethtown" where we had a 15 minute intermission during the film that surprised me! London was the most expensive, but my friend Nadia flirted with the cashier and I got the student price instead of adult price (8 quid over 13 quid or $16USD to $24USD) to see "The Libertine" with Johnny Depp (I believe it is still not out yet here). Last but not least, "The Chronicles of Narnia" in Glasgow on a rainy night. I rarely see that many movies in the theater back at home.
Taking care of oneself and health was priority for me, whenever I went to the supermarkets to get my lunch and dinners---I would get yogurt, some cheese, fruit, meat, whole grain bread, tons of water and sometimes a treat of cake, chips and chocolate or beer even. (My eyes bulged when I calculated the local beer came to 30 cents US in Prague--cheaper than the water!!!!) I must say the Eastern European diet is not to my liking if I had to eat it every day. It is heavy in meats and potatoes (both I love) but I was missing the Asian dishes with tons of vegetables, seafood and tofu but I had to survive without them. But the highlight for me was getting a Thai massage in Prague. One thing I learned, I tried to figure a budget and go to the ATM once at every city. The massage place only took cash, I had two days left in Prague and all the cash I had was for an hour massage. I decide to do a half hour. Gosh it was the BEST half hour well spent. My shoulders were not in pain for the next four cities!!! I even recommended my travel buddy in Vienna to go there. She later wrote back thanks for recommending the Thai massage place in Prague!!!!
Til next time.....
Friday, February 24, 2006
Tuesday, February 21, 2006
The solo European Backpacking adventure part one (the preparations)
The big trip in my life thus far was this past fall! I decided to go backpacking alone in Europe after my friend couldn't go around in Europe with me. After alot of planning and trepidation, I decided to give myself plenty of planning time to go to Europe. Thanks to meeting up with former working colleagues (four of seven people I met up with in Europe) who were gracious hosts/hostesses and I am forever indebted to them for their generosity of time and advice as well as hospitality.
I figured with a budget I couldn't go above, armed with good travel books (and tons of internet research and trolling various travel boards/blogs) I decided to head off. I got my ticket to Europe (I decided against open jaw when I saw the price). I decided six weeks (I couldn't afford anymore time off, plus I was still paying expenses here in the US (otherwise I would have gone off longer to Europe).
Being equipped with the proper gear and having the right information is what I found to be crucial. I was going during off season (cheaper prices, less crowds but crappier weather) played a role. I decided to sprinkle in some former Easter bloc countries (to keep the costs of the Western Europe nations) so the overall budget would still be achieved. Since I am over 26, I couldn't take advantage of the Euro rail pass discounts, I decided against it and did point by point purchases. Plus this allowed for flexibility and armed with myself with many suggestions for hostels to crash at along the way.
I adore Rick Steves (www.ricksteves.com) he has great advice and he is thorough. I got his travel bag and tour books for some of the places I visited. I love his phrase books because they include more useful phrases beyond the typical phrase book.I love his travel philosophy and found it clicked with mine. In addition, I added other stuff I knew that I would need while being gone and roughing it. I also got great advice from the Thorn Tree on the Lonely Planet website. I totally recommend it. I found out about the ATM charges, credit card surcharges while I was away. I told my credit card company I was going to be away (to avoid them thinking I was having false charges racked up on my card). I bought some plastic utensils (to dine al fresco), small flashlight (aided me in the dark hallways at the place I stayed in Budapest and the darkened train cabin en route to Budapest), sneakers and hiking boots (I had to hike in snow and slush in Bavaria) as well as some snacks and water (very important to be hydrated). Handi wipes and anti bacterial gel saved me many times as well as the many tissues I brought along. I made a grand itinerary and it changed while I was away. I got a great travel journal from my friend Juleen (it was great and I filled it!). One booklet itemized everything I spent, all charges, all reservation information, places to check out, friends contact information, and tips I gathered while traveling. Of course I had stash of US money (came in handy when I was on the Aviano airforce base trying to mail back stuff to the US) and euros (from my trip earlier in the year to Belgium and Holland).
In addition I had to think of comfort and being warm. So I made sure I brought layers, light polar fleece jacket (black), socks, gloves, scarf, jacket (with many pockets and big enough to wear layers underneath, comfortable shoes /sneakers, flip flops (for the showers) and many layers of shirts and pants. I personally thought I brought too much (two pairs pants), t shirt and pajama pants, 7 pairs of socks (I threw out as I traveled), 1 long sleeved top, three short sleeved tops. Plus I had the toiletries, shampoo, lotion, feminine products, sunscreen, comb, tooth paste, tooth brush, floss were other crucial products along with multivitamins and calcium supplements. I was worrying about health and nutrition too because I was aware I would not being eating as well as I do in the States.
Another thing about backpacking, a certain personality emerges from this experience. I must confess I was able to do laundry only twice throughout the six weeks. So hand washing and being able to deal with ones lack of constant laundry access was interesting--1--costs and 2--laundry facilities were not always accessible. You take for granted many things. Water pressure for a shower---worst experience was a dribble of water (I later learned NOT to fully lather alot) until knowing the water pressure. Or the lack of or abundance of hot water, so important. Whether or not if there were a ton of stairs to get to your hostel (I found it to be the case ----my legs got a work out!!!).
Suffice to say I averaged a good 16 KG in the beginning (after taking off the huge stack of magazines to the Air Canada stewardesses en route from Toronto to Heathrow) with everything I had to carry on my person. I have a habit of collating all the magazines I do not read and bring them on a trip. I get to finish them and give them to others to read when I am done (I usually just recycle them). And I do not have to carry the magazines on my return trip.
As I traveled around Europe my back pack averaged almost 40 pounds (including my smaller day bag). So needless to say, I had to keep purchases to a minimum---no wine, souvenirs I wanted to buy as every ounce counted when you have it on your back. Needless to say I developed my back muscles during this trip and my endurance as well. I did mail some stuff back (twice) during this trip, but it was costly and time consuming.
Once I got all my tickets, reservations for the first two hostels I was staying at down, and tentative dates to visit friends/people I set off on a warm day. I must admit the travel advice of buying books you like and tearing out the pages you need (1-saves weight 2-saves space 3-you can mark up the pages 4-save valuable travel time 5-gives you reading material when you are traveling en route 6-you can leave for other travelers if you so desire (especially at hostels and the like---I loved love the BOOK exchanges---kept me from being bored on the numerous train rides I took).
But with many things, sometimes you do have hiccups and this trip had them (luckily there were not alot). (to be continued).
I figured with a budget I couldn't go above, armed with good travel books (and tons of internet research and trolling various travel boards/blogs) I decided to head off. I got my ticket to Europe (I decided against open jaw when I saw the price). I decided six weeks (I couldn't afford anymore time off, plus I was still paying expenses here in the US (otherwise I would have gone off longer to Europe).
Being equipped with the proper gear and having the right information is what I found to be crucial. I was going during off season (cheaper prices, less crowds but crappier weather) played a role. I decided to sprinkle in some former Easter bloc countries (to keep the costs of the Western Europe nations) so the overall budget would still be achieved. Since I am over 26, I couldn't take advantage of the Euro rail pass discounts, I decided against it and did point by point purchases. Plus this allowed for flexibility and armed with myself with many suggestions for hostels to crash at along the way.
I adore Rick Steves (www.ricksteves.com) he has great advice and he is thorough. I got his travel bag and tour books for some of the places I visited. I love his phrase books because they include more useful phrases beyond the typical phrase book.I love his travel philosophy and found it clicked with mine. In addition, I added other stuff I knew that I would need while being gone and roughing it. I also got great advice from the Thorn Tree on the Lonely Planet website. I totally recommend it. I found out about the ATM charges, credit card surcharges while I was away. I told my credit card company I was going to be away (to avoid them thinking I was having false charges racked up on my card). I bought some plastic utensils (to dine al fresco), small flashlight (aided me in the dark hallways at the place I stayed in Budapest and the darkened train cabin en route to Budapest), sneakers and hiking boots (I had to hike in snow and slush in Bavaria) as well as some snacks and water (very important to be hydrated). Handi wipes and anti bacterial gel saved me many times as well as the many tissues I brought along. I made a grand itinerary and it changed while I was away. I got a great travel journal from my friend Juleen (it was great and I filled it!). One booklet itemized everything I spent, all charges, all reservation information, places to check out, friends contact information, and tips I gathered while traveling. Of course I had stash of US money (came in handy when I was on the Aviano airforce base trying to mail back stuff to the US) and euros (from my trip earlier in the year to Belgium and Holland).
In addition I had to think of comfort and being warm. So I made sure I brought layers, light polar fleece jacket (black), socks, gloves, scarf, jacket (with many pockets and big enough to wear layers underneath, comfortable shoes /sneakers, flip flops (for the showers) and many layers of shirts and pants. I personally thought I brought too much (two pairs pants), t shirt and pajama pants, 7 pairs of socks (I threw out as I traveled), 1 long sleeved top, three short sleeved tops. Plus I had the toiletries, shampoo, lotion, feminine products, sunscreen, comb, tooth paste, tooth brush, floss were other crucial products along with multivitamins and calcium supplements. I was worrying about health and nutrition too because I was aware I would not being eating as well as I do in the States.
Another thing about backpacking, a certain personality emerges from this experience. I must confess I was able to do laundry only twice throughout the six weeks. So hand washing and being able to deal with ones lack of constant laundry access was interesting--1--costs and 2--laundry facilities were not always accessible. You take for granted many things. Water pressure for a shower---worst experience was a dribble of water (I later learned NOT to fully lather alot) until knowing the water pressure. Or the lack of or abundance of hot water, so important. Whether or not if there were a ton of stairs to get to your hostel (I found it to be the case ----my legs got a work out!!!).
Suffice to say I averaged a good 16 KG in the beginning (after taking off the huge stack of magazines to the Air Canada stewardesses en route from Toronto to Heathrow) with everything I had to carry on my person. I have a habit of collating all the magazines I do not read and bring them on a trip. I get to finish them and give them to others to read when I am done (I usually just recycle them). And I do not have to carry the magazines on my return trip.
As I traveled around Europe my back pack averaged almost 40 pounds (including my smaller day bag). So needless to say, I had to keep purchases to a minimum---no wine, souvenirs I wanted to buy as every ounce counted when you have it on your back. Needless to say I developed my back muscles during this trip and my endurance as well. I did mail some stuff back (twice) during this trip, but it was costly and time consuming.
Once I got all my tickets, reservations for the first two hostels I was staying at down, and tentative dates to visit friends/people I set off on a warm day. I must admit the travel advice of buying books you like and tearing out the pages you need (1-saves weight 2-saves space 3-you can mark up the pages 4-save valuable travel time 5-gives you reading material when you are traveling en route 6-you can leave for other travelers if you so desire (especially at hostels and the like---I loved love the BOOK exchanges---kept me from being bored on the numerous train rides I took).
But with many things, sometimes you do have hiccups and this trip had them (luckily there were not alot). (to be continued).
Monday, February 20, 2006
Friends and International travels....
One thing I cannot get enough of is international travel. Unfortunately it is the most costliest as America is not close to either Europe nor Asia. Granted Europe is closer, the gas prices of the recent past year and Euro have not made travel to this region affordable.
I recall my first international trip outside North America with my friend Soumaly. We met up in Heathrow (she from NYC) and we went from London to other places (Bath (I adored this town), Stonehendge, Salisbury, Leeds Castle, Dover Cliffs etc) and via the Eurostar to Paris. Our only trip outside city limits Versailles (unfortunately a rainy day so no garden strolling for us) and we meandered the lovely Parisian streets and soaked in all the great art. Granted we had our moments of getting lost, not being able to communicate effectively but we persevered!
Angelina's hot chocolate (my the melted chocolate with the pure whipped cream to cut the thickness was dreamy) or the multitudes of crepes we devoured whether savoury or sweet was amazing! We had baguettes with ham and great cheeses, chocolate croissants to enjoy while in Paris.
Later that year (after the above trip), I quit my job to go with friends to Asia. Only to have them back out last minute. I ended up going alone to Hong Kong and Taiwan. Thanks to my great friend and lifesaver Tina, I was ok and had great hostesses and hosts in Taipei and Hong Kong. I even got to take a tour of Singapore and Malaysia while I was at it plus I checked out Macau too. This was after the Hong Kong airport changed locations back in 1998. This three week trip was amazing and I met some great people. Lawrence and Tiffany were great as well as Mei and I was very lucky and spoiled.
I loved the satays I tried in Singapore and a type of BBQ pork there (I adored---yummy). Plus the Mee Goreng and fresh fruits such as rambutan, dragon fruit, mangosteen were abundant, sweet and delicious---I had to eat my fill before coming back to the US. I have to admit, durian (a prickly looking fruit that smells unsavory but to enthusiasts it tastes divine) was not my fave. Plus having it in the main cabin on the 6 hour flight from KL to Hong Kong did not help me enjoy this odoriferous fruit. Or one soup I enjoyed while in Singapore and Malaysia's was the Bah Kuet Teh (Medicine Bone Tea---literally in Chinese) was amazing and flavorful, though I have had it in the US I crave it this soup alot.
In Taiwan, I had "smelly tofu", "nui ro mien--beef in noodle soup" and some other great Taiwanese food. Lawrence was a great host taking me to the famous sights and making sure I had a great experience from Karaoke at Cash Box to going to Shih Lin night market for the food stall eats!
Fast forward a few years later, one dream destination of mine since watching SHOGUN (on TV back in the day) was to go to Japan. I finally did after visiting my gal Jen in Oahu (after my travel pal had to bail) I went from deciding to explore the Hawaiian Islands to checking out Oahu and spending a crazy 6 days and 5 nights in Japan. From my former roomie Michiyo san and college friend Hiroko san and my pen pal's mom Nishimura san, I was treated well! I had a blast on the shinkansen (bullet train) trying okonomiyaki (Japanese style pancake famous in the Kyoto region) or the kobe beef (infamous marblized beef from the practice of feeding these cows beer and massaging them) while I was there. I got to garble some karaoke while in the land of the rising sun. Kyoto was a beauty while Yokohama's Chinatown was amazing. I went to two restaurants that had a tie to a fave Food Network show of mine---Iron Chef (Tetsu jin Riori)! I got addicted to the Germany influenced Baum cake that my pen pal Mayumi chan adores!
Hawaii is the land that loves SPAM! Plus they enjoy tons of gravy and two scoops of rice for their rice plates. I love the melange of cultures that influences the Hawaiian cuisine palate. From the old fashioned poi (well ground up tarot root) to various local fish ceviche (fish "cooked" in citrus juices) are available to try and consume as well as the typical burger.
Two years ago, I got to go to China. Land of my heritage and land full of mystery and wonder for me as it was a concentration for me during my college years. I got to utilize my rusty Mandarin skills successfully (phew). I ventured alone one weekend in Shanghai. I indulged in afternoon tea on the BUND (the view of the opposite Pudong Area (the modernistic TV tower) and overlooking the Huang Pu river was lovely. I had "xiao lung bao" (soup dumplings) and noodles and lots of pickled and preserved vegetables to try. I treated myself to a nice meal to try the local fare. YUMMY from a Shanghainese dim sum sampler offering to a lovely Shanghainese dinner in a lovely beautiful hotel in the Pudong area I ate well.
Then I flew to Beijing, where I met up with my friend Grace and her parents. I am thankful to have such great friends. Grace and her parents (as well as friends, family and old colleagues proceeded to show me and her guest around Beijing. We had a blast! I dined where prior royalty ate at in "Bei Hei Yuen" or had astounding Beijing Duck! I tried Hakka food in the "Hou Hei "are (lots of expats and bars abound in this area). I enjoyed seeing the Forbidden City, Badaling Portion of the Great Wall, Temple of Heaven, Summer Palace, Tiannamen Square were the mandatory historical sights to take in and they were magnificent! If I can,I always try to visit some colleges too. I caught Ching Hua University and Beijing University (both are located near each other). Both have brilliant reputations as excellent institutions of learning (as my host Mr. Chen said---the Harvard of China!!!!) Plus Grace's aunt was a savvy shopper and she lead us to great flea markets, great food and her time and generosity were appreciated! I had a blast enjoying some massages too while in China. *It was wonderful after a long day of walking and soaking in the sights and just what the doctor ordered.
Last year I visited Belgium and Holland and I appreciated my former colleagues Andree for being the hostest with the mostest. I am forever grateful for her pride and knowledge of Belgium history and her generosity to drive me around her lovely country from the Coast, Bruge, the Ardennes Mountain region (along with her lovely mom), Brussels and Antwerp. Also a thanks to Johan who gave me a lovely time visiting upper Brussels and some local smaller towns. Frank and his wife met us in Antwerp to have mussels (a must have) and a fine brew in an underground bar (around for for a few centuries was a kick!). I got to sample amazing beers from trappist monk beers, to kriek (fruit flavored beer in this case cherry) to scrumptious chocolates. I am an addict of Leonidas (a chain in Belgium but the quality is wonderful). Artisan chocolates are great too such as a small shop called Marys in Brussels was to die for or the small one in Bruges that had cherries with cordial inside the truffle--a wonderful experience indeed! The vegetables were top notch and I liked the in season white asparagus (yum). Or the tiny shrimps caught from the coast served simply with mayo lettuce and tomatoes were divine!
A side trip to Amsterdam, I met up with my friend there and his family and we went to Keukenhof (tulip gardens) with his lovely family (he has fraternal twins and they are adorable!!!!). One day is too short but I got in the major sights including Anne Franks House (I recommend going at night to avoid the crowds during the day----it is worth it!), Van Gogh's Museum, are just a few sights to see. I enjoyed strolling around the many bridges over the canals. I got addicted to Schweppes bitter lemon soda.
These trips would not have been worthwhile if it weren't for the hospitality of friends, colleagues and friends of friends. One example, Rynn was a great hostess, she is the old roomie and good friend of the cousin of a friend of mine. She gave me a wonderful behind the scenes view of the Forbidden City (where the normal tourist cannot roam into) after we met up at the Starbucks located inside (yes I was shocked to hear that too). Or to Andree, Johan and Frank they were excellent hosts to me to further enjoy and learn alot about their homeland Belgium. To the Chen Family, Beijing would not have been what it was for me from their homemade meals, planning our itinerary to warmth and generosity created a wonderful and memorable trip for me! Japan was a blast with the Tsuboi-Friedmans, Michiyo san, Nishimura san (Kansai cooking is delicious!!!)giving advice on food, culture and the sights to me made my experience more memorable. Or to Smithies Michelle, Charmaine and Tiffany (many thanks to her especially) for a great time in Hong Kong... it was appreciated from the grand opening party for a club, to checking out the American and Shanghai Clubs to an excursion to Ocean Park or visiting Kowloon I saw and experienced alot. Thanks to Yeuk Ching's friend for being kind to help me get a travel agent to trek to Singapore and Malaysia and her other pals for meeting up with me to eat out too. Tina---with out you and your family, I would have had a disaster on my hands but you salvaged my Taiwan trip. For that, I am forever indebted and blessed to have such a great friend in you.
I am constantly counting my blessings... more so in my last big trip this past fall.
I recall my first international trip outside North America with my friend Soumaly. We met up in Heathrow (she from NYC) and we went from London to other places (Bath (I adored this town), Stonehendge, Salisbury, Leeds Castle, Dover Cliffs etc) and via the Eurostar to Paris. Our only trip outside city limits Versailles (unfortunately a rainy day so no garden strolling for us) and we meandered the lovely Parisian streets and soaked in all the great art. Granted we had our moments of getting lost, not being able to communicate effectively but we persevered!
Angelina's hot chocolate (my the melted chocolate with the pure whipped cream to cut the thickness was dreamy) or the multitudes of crepes we devoured whether savoury or sweet was amazing! We had baguettes with ham and great cheeses, chocolate croissants to enjoy while in Paris.
Later that year (after the above trip), I quit my job to go with friends to Asia. Only to have them back out last minute. I ended up going alone to Hong Kong and Taiwan. Thanks to my great friend and lifesaver Tina, I was ok and had great hostesses and hosts in Taipei and Hong Kong. I even got to take a tour of Singapore and Malaysia while I was at it plus I checked out Macau too. This was after the Hong Kong airport changed locations back in 1998. This three week trip was amazing and I met some great people. Lawrence and Tiffany were great as well as Mei and I was very lucky and spoiled.
I loved the satays I tried in Singapore and a type of BBQ pork there (I adored---yummy). Plus the Mee Goreng and fresh fruits such as rambutan, dragon fruit, mangosteen were abundant, sweet and delicious---I had to eat my fill before coming back to the US. I have to admit, durian (a prickly looking fruit that smells unsavory but to enthusiasts it tastes divine) was not my fave. Plus having it in the main cabin on the 6 hour flight from KL to Hong Kong did not help me enjoy this odoriferous fruit. Or one soup I enjoyed while in Singapore and Malaysia's was the Bah Kuet Teh (Medicine Bone Tea---literally in Chinese) was amazing and flavorful, though I have had it in the US I crave it this soup alot.
In Taiwan, I had "smelly tofu", "nui ro mien--beef in noodle soup" and some other great Taiwanese food. Lawrence was a great host taking me to the famous sights and making sure I had a great experience from Karaoke at Cash Box to going to Shih Lin night market for the food stall eats!
Fast forward a few years later, one dream destination of mine since watching SHOGUN (on TV back in the day) was to go to Japan. I finally did after visiting my gal Jen in Oahu (after my travel pal had to bail) I went from deciding to explore the Hawaiian Islands to checking out Oahu and spending a crazy 6 days and 5 nights in Japan. From my former roomie Michiyo san and college friend Hiroko san and my pen pal's mom Nishimura san, I was treated well! I had a blast on the shinkansen (bullet train) trying okonomiyaki (Japanese style pancake famous in the Kyoto region) or the kobe beef (infamous marblized beef from the practice of feeding these cows beer and massaging them) while I was there. I got to garble some karaoke while in the land of the rising sun. Kyoto was a beauty while Yokohama's Chinatown was amazing. I went to two restaurants that had a tie to a fave Food Network show of mine---Iron Chef (Tetsu jin Riori)! I got addicted to the Germany influenced Baum cake that my pen pal Mayumi chan adores!
Hawaii is the land that loves SPAM! Plus they enjoy tons of gravy and two scoops of rice for their rice plates. I love the melange of cultures that influences the Hawaiian cuisine palate. From the old fashioned poi (well ground up tarot root) to various local fish ceviche (fish "cooked" in citrus juices) are available to try and consume as well as the typical burger.
Two years ago, I got to go to China. Land of my heritage and land full of mystery and wonder for me as it was a concentration for me during my college years. I got to utilize my rusty Mandarin skills successfully (phew). I ventured alone one weekend in Shanghai. I indulged in afternoon tea on the BUND (the view of the opposite Pudong Area (the modernistic TV tower) and overlooking the Huang Pu river was lovely. I had "xiao lung bao" (soup dumplings) and noodles and lots of pickled and preserved vegetables to try. I treated myself to a nice meal to try the local fare. YUMMY from a Shanghainese dim sum sampler offering to a lovely Shanghainese dinner in a lovely beautiful hotel in the Pudong area I ate well.
Then I flew to Beijing, where I met up with my friend Grace and her parents. I am thankful to have such great friends. Grace and her parents (as well as friends, family and old colleagues proceeded to show me and her guest around Beijing. We had a blast! I dined where prior royalty ate at in "Bei Hei Yuen" or had astounding Beijing Duck! I tried Hakka food in the "Hou Hei "are (lots of expats and bars abound in this area). I enjoyed seeing the Forbidden City, Badaling Portion of the Great Wall, Temple of Heaven, Summer Palace, Tiannamen Square were the mandatory historical sights to take in and they were magnificent! If I can,I always try to visit some colleges too. I caught Ching Hua University and Beijing University (both are located near each other). Both have brilliant reputations as excellent institutions of learning (as my host Mr. Chen said---the Harvard of China!!!!) Plus Grace's aunt was a savvy shopper and she lead us to great flea markets, great food and her time and generosity were appreciated! I had a blast enjoying some massages too while in China. *It was wonderful after a long day of walking and soaking in the sights and just what the doctor ordered.
Last year I visited Belgium and Holland and I appreciated my former colleagues Andree for being the hostest with the mostest. I am forever grateful for her pride and knowledge of Belgium history and her generosity to drive me around her lovely country from the Coast, Bruge, the Ardennes Mountain region (along with her lovely mom), Brussels and Antwerp. Also a thanks to Johan who gave me a lovely time visiting upper Brussels and some local smaller towns. Frank and his wife met us in Antwerp to have mussels (a must have) and a fine brew in an underground bar (around for for a few centuries was a kick!). I got to sample amazing beers from trappist monk beers, to kriek (fruit flavored beer in this case cherry) to scrumptious chocolates. I am an addict of Leonidas (a chain in Belgium but the quality is wonderful). Artisan chocolates are great too such as a small shop called Marys in Brussels was to die for or the small one in Bruges that had cherries with cordial inside the truffle--a wonderful experience indeed! The vegetables were top notch and I liked the in season white asparagus (yum). Or the tiny shrimps caught from the coast served simply with mayo lettuce and tomatoes were divine!
A side trip to Amsterdam, I met up with my friend there and his family and we went to Keukenhof (tulip gardens) with his lovely family (he has fraternal twins and they are adorable!!!!). One day is too short but I got in the major sights including Anne Franks House (I recommend going at night to avoid the crowds during the day----it is worth it!), Van Gogh's Museum, are just a few sights to see. I enjoyed strolling around the many bridges over the canals. I got addicted to Schweppes bitter lemon soda.
These trips would not have been worthwhile if it weren't for the hospitality of friends, colleagues and friends of friends. One example, Rynn was a great hostess, she is the old roomie and good friend of the cousin of a friend of mine. She gave me a wonderful behind the scenes view of the Forbidden City (where the normal tourist cannot roam into) after we met up at the Starbucks located inside (yes I was shocked to hear that too). Or to Andree, Johan and Frank they were excellent hosts to me to further enjoy and learn alot about their homeland Belgium. To the Chen Family, Beijing would not have been what it was for me from their homemade meals, planning our itinerary to warmth and generosity created a wonderful and memorable trip for me! Japan was a blast with the Tsuboi-Friedmans, Michiyo san, Nishimura san (Kansai cooking is delicious!!!)giving advice on food, culture and the sights to me made my experience more memorable. Or to Smithies Michelle, Charmaine and Tiffany (many thanks to her especially) for a great time in Hong Kong... it was appreciated from the grand opening party for a club, to checking out the American and Shanghai Clubs to an excursion to Ocean Park or visiting Kowloon I saw and experienced alot. Thanks to Yeuk Ching's friend for being kind to help me get a travel agent to trek to Singapore and Malaysia and her other pals for meeting up with me to eat out too. Tina---with out you and your family, I would have had a disaster on my hands but you salvaged my Taiwan trip. For that, I am forever indebted and blessed to have such a great friend in you.
I am constantly counting my blessings... more so in my last big trip this past fall.
Friday, February 17, 2006
Domestic travel......my experiences
Travel---one of my passions in life. It is crazy to think that I really traveled a lot after my first flight on a plane to Los Angeles when I was in my mid twenties. Before then, I was constantly working growing up in my family's business. Our only chances to travel were to Toronto to see my dad's family in Toronto. When I was real young, my folks drove us to Disneyworld to Orlando. It is all a blur as I was about 5/6 years old. I recall it vaguely.
Since that fateful first flight on American Airlines to Los Angeles, I have not looked back in terms of traveling. I have been fortunate to have made many friends along the way via college and many conferences, through friends of friends, business colleagues etc. Not only has international travel have been of interest to me, but domestic travel as well. America has so much to offer and to see. I loved my trip to New Orleans (a number of years back) with a high school buddy exploring the old French Quarter, having a beignet at Cafe du Monde. Or taking the ghost tour at night, it was scary! Even the cruise during Xmas with my friend Mil to Key West and then off to Playa del Carmen and Cozumel (which was an experience!) was different and fun.
I have a special place for California as I have a lot of friends who both live in Los Angeles and the Bay Area. I must admit, I like the Bay Area a bit more. I have found San Diego to be lovely, Laguna, and Santa Barbara to be quaint. In the Bay Area, my friend Dave allowed me to explore alot of the place. I got to do the tourist traps--Alcatraz, Angel Island and visited the various museums and I adored Golden Gate Park. I enjoyed Monterrey, Carmel, 14 mile, Sausolito, Napa and Sonoma (the wineries whisk you away thinking it is another world) and of course Yosemite! I loved the views of El Capitan and seeing the natural beauty abound.
Seattle has been lovely (Bruce Lee's grave, my first taste of Ostrich, to glimpsing a Flying Angels show here) and I adore nearby Vancouver (best Cantonese Dim sum I have had especially the steamed eel and tendons in curry), Butchard Gardens (Victoria). Ann Arbor is pretty in Michigan (loved the college town feel), Detroit (I found a bit depressing) and I adore Chicago. From the art museums, Michigan Avenue, Northwestern Campus to Frank Lloyd Wright's home to their scrumptious food I have enjoyed visiting this architectural gem. Philly has been the site of Morimoto and Le Beq Fin, two well known and expensive food establishments. I love the original Japanese Iron Chef series with Chef Japanese Masahiro Morimoto. As for Le Beq Fin, it was a special bday luncheon with two cherished friends. My only dining experience to a restaurant with Michelin Stars!!!! The Liberty Bell, Constitution Museum, and Art Museum as well as the mini Rodin Museum are lovely. Or my friend Christine and I did a crazy driving trip from Indiana to Sandusky, Ohio just to experience Cedar Point. YES, we were crazy for roller coasters (ironically we are both afraid of heights) but it was a crazy and wonderful bonding experience! I got to see Hershey Park , unfortunately I did not get to go to the amusement park thanks to an outing with my friend Thai.
I loved my road trip with my big sis Audrey to Princeton NJ. I got to see her beloved home town and that weekend I also saw Princeton and found it to be a refreshing college town. Another one I love and experienced was Northampton, MA in western Massachusetts. We had some top notch musical acts come through, very good food and decent shopping plus a thriving scene for independent and international films. Plus our college art collection has been famed for their impressionist art collection (I would learn later on). The five college or Pioneer Valley was great to me. I miss the variety of great lectures of famous politicians, artists, writers, educators from around the world who would come by. College truly was a time of mental stimulation, learning more about yourself, exploring your horizons and expanding your friendships and boundaries. Plus I enjoyed the various road trips to different colleges---UPENN, DUKE, Harvard, Yale, Wellesley, UCONN, Wesleyan, Dartmouth--to name a few during that time.
Washington DC is another favorite place. The Nations Capitol is never boring for me. From the lovely memorials, I find I visit a new one every time (JFK, FDR, WWII, Vietnam War, Korean War, Lincoln etc) or to the myriad choices of FREE museums--one of my all time faves the Portrait Museum reopened FINALLY after being shuttered for a few years. A memorable exhibit of the treasures of the Topkapi Palace at the Corcoran Gallery (further fueled my interest in Turkey--I want to visit there some day) to seeing lovely Asian Art at the Arthur Sackler Museum. Or the new SPY Museum (takes a full afternoon and it is interesting!).The Washington Zoo to see the pandas or exploring the lovely Georgetown area has been fun. Nearby Maryland, I love the Maryland crab cakes--some of the best was at the Baltimore Art Museum (I had with my friend Lisa) three different ways. Annapolis was a fun road trip with Deborah and seeing the Naval Academy was fun.
North Carolina in the Raleigh-Durham area was fun. Duke is a beautiful campus and the BBQ was great. Very laid back and humid when I went. Not as humid as Hot Lanta (Atlanta) and I recall everything was named Peach tree. Margaret Mitchell's home and the local Art Museum was cool as well as taking a tour of CNN studios and the Coke Cola Museum (don't forget to sample the various soda flavors from around the world at the end). Miami is a fun place especially meandering around South Beach or going to the Everglades being close to the alligators (it is a bit scary). Sunset in the Fort Lauderdale area attending a wedding in a boat was very romantic and picturesque. Finally hitting Orlando and Epcot at an adult with friends was fun.
Texas has given me many fond memories, from Dallas---the JFK museum (a good afternoon) or checking the local jazz scene in deep ellum, Austin---college scene and state capitol building, to Houston---big Asian community, Amys (one of the best ice cream I have tasted!!!!!), and good BBQ. San Antonio was fun to see the Alamo (I was a bit disappointed---the same as when I saw the Mona Lisa at the Louvre).
Nashville with my friends --her husband went to a MBA school reunion and seeing The Grand Ole Opry, and sampling excellent BBQ, fried chicken and grits were a treat but definitely arty clogging. That trip marked a deepness in our friendship as we were stuck twice (on both ways) in NYC to stay overnight due to circumstances beyond our control. One we missed our flight connection (due to the airline--they said weather) the second time it was due to the planes.
Halifax in Nova Scotia I recall visiting taking an overnight on a boat for my dad. He was applying for American Citizenship and had to go there. Very picturesque and I saw my first rainbow there. Wow! Montreal --I have visited from dragon boat racing (one of my treasured fleece jackets comes from there), loved old town to Toronto with its great food and tons of Asian culture and food there.
New York City----a place I go to a lot over the years. One time I went to see the treasures of China from the Taipei National Museum. At the same time at the MET, the special Faberge Egg exhibit was on too. I was in heaven! It was worth sitting on the bus a few hours each way to see this collection. Or when I was selected to rep my high school as an ambassador seeing Statue of Liberty (getting to the top was cool), top of the Empire State Building and wandering around without my folks was fun. I love Flushing for the good Korean BBQ and great Taiwanese treats to be had there. Joe's Shanghai for xiao lung bao has a big reputation and I am still in search of the place that moved that makes the tasty Singaporean style meat BBQ jerky. Or checking out Nobu (during restaurant week back in 1997--thinking I want this in Boston--we finally did a few years later) to Serendipity based on the movie but I loved their frozen hot cocoa. Or checking out Broadway shows over the year from Raisin in the Sun (Diddy's turn on Broadway but I adored the former Mrs. Cosby of the Cosby show better and Sanaa Latham was awesome too), to Hugh Jackman in A Boy from OZ (I admit I sighed along with the other female audience members) or checking out the famous Lea Salonga in Flower Drum Song (revival but redone by David Henry Huang.) Or the year one famous NYC department store dedicated four of their display windows to each character on the now defunct but iconic HBO television show- Sex in the City during Christmas time.
Lest I not forgot the many road trips with various friends I made or became better friends to Burlington, Vermont---to attend a wedding. Saw the Von Trapp Lodge, Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream Factory. Or checking out the expensive homes in Rhode Island around the famed Newport Rhode Island. Or to York, Maine checking out the local fare---ice cream, lobster and other seafood as well as the beaches! Freeport is good for its Shopping Outlets but I must say that the ones in Wrentham, MA and Woodbury, NY (great for the major designer label aficionado) are better. Century 21 is a NY staple. I finally went to Massachusetts first IKEA in Stoughton. I admit it was mesmerizing the first time I was there (on MLK day this year). Going to Long Island, visited my sister's god father or seeing my old roomie Jenny.
Vegas has been a destination I have gone to three times now. Last year I brought my folks there and boy was it a learning experience of patience. Hoover Dam was cool and interesting but once is enough. I wanted to go to the Grand Canyon but that got nixed. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing "O" and checking out the fountain show in front of the Bellagio (my mom's favorite free show). The various buffets was cool. I will always recall how maps are deceiving when we walked from the Vegas Strip to the very far away Liberace Museum. Hey even one of my faves I always get in California the In'n'Out burger can be had there! YUMMY!
Oahu was a fun experience using my free miles points to see Jennifer. I admit I am a type A so taking my pace down a notch was tough. From trekking to the top of Diamond Head, going to the North Shore for the famed shaved ice, checking out the Polynesian Cultural Center (one day trip) to seeing the maze at the Dole Pineapple factory to going to the only Palace on American soil was fun and learning about the local food---their love of spam, two scoops of rice and various other fishes. One highlight was Pearl Harbor, very sobering but beautiful tribute to those who died in WWII. During that trip I incorporated my first trek to Japan (only another 7/8 hour plane ride away) and I am glad I went there.
The travel bug is still within me and this is just glimpse of the domestic travel I have done. I still would love to drive cross country!!! Or see Mount Rushmore, see New Mexico, Portland, Salt Lake City...and many more places in the United States. One that will take some time to visit is Alaska----I have heard so much about it.
Since that fateful first flight on American Airlines to Los Angeles, I have not looked back in terms of traveling. I have been fortunate to have made many friends along the way via college and many conferences, through friends of friends, business colleagues etc. Not only has international travel have been of interest to me, but domestic travel as well. America has so much to offer and to see. I loved my trip to New Orleans (a number of years back) with a high school buddy exploring the old French Quarter, having a beignet at Cafe du Monde. Or taking the ghost tour at night, it was scary! Even the cruise during Xmas with my friend Mil to Key West and then off to Playa del Carmen and Cozumel (which was an experience!) was different and fun.
I have a special place for California as I have a lot of friends who both live in Los Angeles and the Bay Area. I must admit, I like the Bay Area a bit more. I have found San Diego to be lovely, Laguna, and Santa Barbara to be quaint. In the Bay Area, my friend Dave allowed me to explore alot of the place. I got to do the tourist traps--Alcatraz, Angel Island and visited the various museums and I adored Golden Gate Park. I enjoyed Monterrey, Carmel, 14 mile, Sausolito, Napa and Sonoma (the wineries whisk you away thinking it is another world) and of course Yosemite! I loved the views of El Capitan and seeing the natural beauty abound.
Seattle has been lovely (Bruce Lee's grave, my first taste of Ostrich, to glimpsing a Flying Angels show here) and I adore nearby Vancouver (best Cantonese Dim sum I have had especially the steamed eel and tendons in curry), Butchard Gardens (Victoria). Ann Arbor is pretty in Michigan (loved the college town feel), Detroit (I found a bit depressing) and I adore Chicago. From the art museums, Michigan Avenue, Northwestern Campus to Frank Lloyd Wright's home to their scrumptious food I have enjoyed visiting this architectural gem. Philly has been the site of Morimoto and Le Beq Fin, two well known and expensive food establishments. I love the original Japanese Iron Chef series with Chef Japanese Masahiro Morimoto. As for Le Beq Fin, it was a special bday luncheon with two cherished friends. My only dining experience to a restaurant with Michelin Stars!!!! The Liberty Bell, Constitution Museum, and Art Museum as well as the mini Rodin Museum are lovely. Or my friend Christine and I did a crazy driving trip from Indiana to Sandusky, Ohio just to experience Cedar Point. YES, we were crazy for roller coasters (ironically we are both afraid of heights) but it was a crazy and wonderful bonding experience! I got to see Hershey Park , unfortunately I did not get to go to the amusement park thanks to an outing with my friend Thai.
I loved my road trip with my big sis Audrey to Princeton NJ. I got to see her beloved home town and that weekend I also saw Princeton and found it to be a refreshing college town. Another one I love and experienced was Northampton, MA in western Massachusetts. We had some top notch musical acts come through, very good food and decent shopping plus a thriving scene for independent and international films. Plus our college art collection has been famed for their impressionist art collection (I would learn later on). The five college or Pioneer Valley was great to me. I miss the variety of great lectures of famous politicians, artists, writers, educators from around the world who would come by. College truly was a time of mental stimulation, learning more about yourself, exploring your horizons and expanding your friendships and boundaries. Plus I enjoyed the various road trips to different colleges---UPENN, DUKE, Harvard, Yale, Wellesley, UCONN, Wesleyan, Dartmouth--to name a few during that time.
Washington DC is another favorite place. The Nations Capitol is never boring for me. From the lovely memorials, I find I visit a new one every time (JFK, FDR, WWII, Vietnam War, Korean War, Lincoln etc) or to the myriad choices of FREE museums--one of my all time faves the Portrait Museum reopened FINALLY after being shuttered for a few years. A memorable exhibit of the treasures of the Topkapi Palace at the Corcoran Gallery (further fueled my interest in Turkey--I want to visit there some day) to seeing lovely Asian Art at the Arthur Sackler Museum. Or the new SPY Museum (takes a full afternoon and it is interesting!).The Washington Zoo to see the pandas or exploring the lovely Georgetown area has been fun. Nearby Maryland, I love the Maryland crab cakes--some of the best was at the Baltimore Art Museum (I had with my friend Lisa) three different ways. Annapolis was a fun road trip with Deborah and seeing the Naval Academy was fun.
North Carolina in the Raleigh-Durham area was fun. Duke is a beautiful campus and the BBQ was great. Very laid back and humid when I went. Not as humid as Hot Lanta (Atlanta) and I recall everything was named Peach tree. Margaret Mitchell's home and the local Art Museum was cool as well as taking a tour of CNN studios and the Coke Cola Museum (don't forget to sample the various soda flavors from around the world at the end). Miami is a fun place especially meandering around South Beach or going to the Everglades being close to the alligators (it is a bit scary). Sunset in the Fort Lauderdale area attending a wedding in a boat was very romantic and picturesque. Finally hitting Orlando and Epcot at an adult with friends was fun.
Texas has given me many fond memories, from Dallas---the JFK museum (a good afternoon) or checking the local jazz scene in deep ellum, Austin---college scene and state capitol building, to Houston---big Asian community, Amys (one of the best ice cream I have tasted!!!!!), and good BBQ. San Antonio was fun to see the Alamo (I was a bit disappointed---the same as when I saw the Mona Lisa at the Louvre).
Nashville with my friends --her husband went to a MBA school reunion and seeing The Grand Ole Opry, and sampling excellent BBQ, fried chicken and grits were a treat but definitely arty clogging. That trip marked a deepness in our friendship as we were stuck twice (on both ways) in NYC to stay overnight due to circumstances beyond our control. One we missed our flight connection (due to the airline--they said weather) the second time it was due to the planes.
Halifax in Nova Scotia I recall visiting taking an overnight on a boat for my dad. He was applying for American Citizenship and had to go there. Very picturesque and I saw my first rainbow there. Wow! Montreal --I have visited from dragon boat racing (one of my treasured fleece jackets comes from there), loved old town to Toronto with its great food and tons of Asian culture and food there.
New York City----a place I go to a lot over the years. One time I went to see the treasures of China from the Taipei National Museum. At the same time at the MET, the special Faberge Egg exhibit was on too. I was in heaven! It was worth sitting on the bus a few hours each way to see this collection. Or when I was selected to rep my high school as an ambassador seeing Statue of Liberty (getting to the top was cool), top of the Empire State Building and wandering around without my folks was fun. I love Flushing for the good Korean BBQ and great Taiwanese treats to be had there. Joe's Shanghai for xiao lung bao has a big reputation and I am still in search of the place that moved that makes the tasty Singaporean style meat BBQ jerky. Or checking out Nobu (during restaurant week back in 1997--thinking I want this in Boston--we finally did a few years later) to Serendipity based on the movie but I loved their frozen hot cocoa. Or checking out Broadway shows over the year from Raisin in the Sun (Diddy's turn on Broadway but I adored the former Mrs. Cosby of the Cosby show better and Sanaa Latham was awesome too), to Hugh Jackman in A Boy from OZ (I admit I sighed along with the other female audience members) or checking out the famous Lea Salonga in Flower Drum Song (revival but redone by David Henry Huang.) Or the year one famous NYC department store dedicated four of their display windows to each character on the now defunct but iconic HBO television show- Sex in the City during Christmas time.
Lest I not forgot the many road trips with various friends I made or became better friends to Burlington, Vermont---to attend a wedding. Saw the Von Trapp Lodge, Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream Factory. Or checking out the expensive homes in Rhode Island around the famed Newport Rhode Island. Or to York, Maine checking out the local fare---ice cream, lobster and other seafood as well as the beaches! Freeport is good for its Shopping Outlets but I must say that the ones in Wrentham, MA and Woodbury, NY (great for the major designer label aficionado) are better. Century 21 is a NY staple. I finally went to Massachusetts first IKEA in Stoughton. I admit it was mesmerizing the first time I was there (on MLK day this year). Going to Long Island, visited my sister's god father or seeing my old roomie Jenny.
Vegas has been a destination I have gone to three times now. Last year I brought my folks there and boy was it a learning experience of patience. Hoover Dam was cool and interesting but once is enough. I wanted to go to the Grand Canyon but that got nixed. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing "O" and checking out the fountain show in front of the Bellagio (my mom's favorite free show). The various buffets was cool. I will always recall how maps are deceiving when we walked from the Vegas Strip to the very far away Liberace Museum. Hey even one of my faves I always get in California the In'n'Out burger can be had there! YUMMY!
Oahu was a fun experience using my free miles points to see Jennifer. I admit I am a type A so taking my pace down a notch was tough. From trekking to the top of Diamond Head, going to the North Shore for the famed shaved ice, checking out the Polynesian Cultural Center (one day trip) to seeing the maze at the Dole Pineapple factory to going to the only Palace on American soil was fun and learning about the local food---their love of spam, two scoops of rice and various other fishes. One highlight was Pearl Harbor, very sobering but beautiful tribute to those who died in WWII. During that trip I incorporated my first trek to Japan (only another 7/8 hour plane ride away) and I am glad I went there.
The travel bug is still within me and this is just glimpse of the domestic travel I have done. I still would love to drive cross country!!! Or see Mount Rushmore, see New Mexico, Portland, Salt Lake City...and many more places in the United States. One that will take some time to visit is Alaska----I have heard so much about it.
Thursday, February 16, 2006
Meaningful gestures and great friends
So I mentioned about living life trying to do meaningful gestures to friends and family (meaningful can mean many things of course to many people). From sending flowers to a friend who experienced unexpected loss or happiness to creating by hand a photo album chronicling a friend on her wedding day from getting dressed to partying til midnight or just giving a book on the new city my friend moved to for school are few of them. One of my faves was the coordination of my arrival to celebrate my close friend Tina's bday in NYC one year (I live in Boston) to surprise her. Her sister called me up, I took a train to Yale, she drove me to NYC. Then I crashed at a friend's place in Forest Hills overnight to then meet up (by the elevator with flowers and balloons) at the entrance of the ice skating rink. The look on my friend's face was priceless (I wish I took a photo) and very happy!
I have been blessed by many generous friends (I am not talking about generosity of money) but of time, spirit, encouragement, empathy and love that they share with me in their relationship and friendship. Recently, Sharon in London gave me some great words of wisdom when I saw here there. She really delved into the crux of the matter of some things I told her she did not agree with me. She caused me to see the errors of my ways (in terms of self perception unfortunately does not concur with others perception anyways hers at the time). I found that spending time with others especially when visiting and traveling you learn more about them.
I have been blessed with friends who listen to you and remember what you said earlier. I had mentioned once I wanted to try a facial and massage. That year for my bday, two of my friends arranged for me to have my first facial and massage--I was bowled over! I was speechless with surprise. I am just happy to spend time with my friend whether hanging out or even seeing a flick or eating a meal. Since those first times, I have not looked back, I love my facials and I love massages (but find them too pricey)! Or mentioning I am a sucker for Kpop, my friend made for my bday some CDS one with slow Kpop and one with fast dance Kpop tunes that had DJ Duk (yeah the good ole tunes from the 1990's).
I have found many a friendship blossom with travel or just visiting them as a result. One in particular was with Tina (the friend I visited for her bday in NYC) during our college days. We went to school in western Massachusetts which was not that exciting. She would generously drive us in her red Honda Civic to big Collegiate Parties in Boston. One party in particular (our first outing) we bonded over driving back in the wee hours, as three passengers in the back were sleeping, we chatted about ourselves. I always pride myself on trying to stay awake with the driver (especially late at night) as I want to be sure they are ok. This started many a road trip to Boston for dim sum and other parties. Or visiting my friend Dave in (SF) for over two weeks and I was able to explore the Bay Area and visit Yosemite National Park with him. He was always supportive of my passion for travel and I supported his love for photography--he went from working in a lab to being a wedding photographer! I am so proud of him! I recall the first time he bought his first camera and his first travel photos on it in Spain. (check him out at www.davidleearts.com). He instilled in me it is ok to take some shots (due to perspective, interest in the texture of the material -ie tree bark). I tend to take photos of people for memories sake. But there is something to be said about taking many cool scenery photos though.
I personally love to cook and make things as a way to show my caring and affection. So when I am a recipient, I always appreciate the thought and efforts. From my first baked cheesecake for my bday (thanks Lad) to a Italian meal at MIT Grad school housing (Emo you rock) where I would meet one of my future roomies HF to Dave cooking me great meals--brunch and dinner in Jamaica Plain (Boston is not the same without you dear !!!!) I have been spoiled.
It is said in many cultures, eating is so important. In Chinese culture (and other Asian cultures as I have noticed as well) asking if someone has eaten is a show of affection and caring towards that person. Food in cultures worldwide takes center place for many celebrations and festivals. Being Chinese, I must admit I LOVE Chinese New Year banquet. I tell all my non-Asian friends if you are invited to a Chinese New Year Banquet or Wedding Banquet run don't walk to the celebration! You will have a wonderful time and experience. The abundance of food (but with meaning for every dish) on the table is amazing in their meaning and their relation to the various holidays. Every time I talk to my parents, one of their mandatory questions to ask me is--have you eaten yet? What have you eaten lately? My sister and I always get food and homemade soups every time they come out from the South Shore to visit.
I like to bake and cook foods. One of my friends in the Bay Area started a scones mix company with her sisters (www.moreish.com) and boy are their scones tasty! They sell to stores and restaurants but as a lucky friend of an owner I can buy direct. I have shared the love with giving friends scones to try. I adore the many flavors but pumpkin and cranberry almond are particular favorites.
So for the last few years, I always make a point of doing small gestures all the time. Hey I feel good doing it, why not?
I have been blessed by many generous friends (I am not talking about generosity of money) but of time, spirit, encouragement, empathy and love that they share with me in their relationship and friendship. Recently, Sharon in London gave me some great words of wisdom when I saw here there. She really delved into the crux of the matter of some things I told her she did not agree with me. She caused me to see the errors of my ways (in terms of self perception unfortunately does not concur with others perception anyways hers at the time). I found that spending time with others especially when visiting and traveling you learn more about them.
I have been blessed with friends who listen to you and remember what you said earlier. I had mentioned once I wanted to try a facial and massage. That year for my bday, two of my friends arranged for me to have my first facial and massage--I was bowled over! I was speechless with surprise. I am just happy to spend time with my friend whether hanging out or even seeing a flick or eating a meal. Since those first times, I have not looked back, I love my facials and I love massages (but find them too pricey)! Or mentioning I am a sucker for Kpop, my friend made for my bday some CDS one with slow Kpop and one with fast dance Kpop tunes that had DJ Duk (yeah the good ole tunes from the 1990's).
I have found many a friendship blossom with travel or just visiting them as a result. One in particular was with Tina (the friend I visited for her bday in NYC) during our college days. We went to school in western Massachusetts which was not that exciting. She would generously drive us in her red Honda Civic to big Collegiate Parties in Boston. One party in particular (our first outing) we bonded over driving back in the wee hours, as three passengers in the back were sleeping, we chatted about ourselves. I always pride myself on trying to stay awake with the driver (especially late at night) as I want to be sure they are ok. This started many a road trip to Boston for dim sum and other parties. Or visiting my friend Dave in (SF) for over two weeks and I was able to explore the Bay Area and visit Yosemite National Park with him. He was always supportive of my passion for travel and I supported his love for photography--he went from working in a lab to being a wedding photographer! I am so proud of him! I recall the first time he bought his first camera and his first travel photos on it in Spain. (check him out at www.davidleearts.com). He instilled in me it is ok to take some shots (due to perspective, interest in the texture of the material -ie tree bark). I tend to take photos of people for memories sake. But there is something to be said about taking many cool scenery photos though.
I personally love to cook and make things as a way to show my caring and affection. So when I am a recipient, I always appreciate the thought and efforts. From my first baked cheesecake for my bday (thanks Lad) to a Italian meal at MIT Grad school housing (Emo you rock) where I would meet one of my future roomies HF to Dave cooking me great meals--brunch and dinner in Jamaica Plain (Boston is not the same without you dear !!!!) I have been spoiled.
It is said in many cultures, eating is so important. In Chinese culture (and other Asian cultures as I have noticed as well) asking if someone has eaten is a show of affection and caring towards that person. Food in cultures worldwide takes center place for many celebrations and festivals. Being Chinese, I must admit I LOVE Chinese New Year banquet. I tell all my non-Asian friends if you are invited to a Chinese New Year Banquet or Wedding Banquet run don't walk to the celebration! You will have a wonderful time and experience. The abundance of food (but with meaning for every dish) on the table is amazing in their meaning and their relation to the various holidays. Every time I talk to my parents, one of their mandatory questions to ask me is--have you eaten yet? What have you eaten lately? My sister and I always get food and homemade soups every time they come out from the South Shore to visit.
I like to bake and cook foods. One of my friends in the Bay Area started a scones mix company with her sisters (www.moreish.com) and boy are their scones tasty! They sell to stores and restaurants but as a lucky friend of an owner I can buy direct. I have shared the love with giving friends scones to try. I adore the many flavors but pumpkin and cranberry almond are particular favorites.
So for the last few years, I always make a point of doing small gestures all the time. Hey I feel good doing it, why not?
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Holidays and other musings
Valentines Day, a day that I see many people flitting to and fro carrying big boxes of flowers and chocolates for the their mate, partner, spouse on this Hallmark Holiday. Like Christmas, there are numerous expectations that are placed on these days. For one it is receiving gifts--whether luxurious, simple or thoughtful or not to the latter requiring a similar way (without having to be a grand romantic gesture).
Why does it only have to be a few token days people are treated well due to the dictation of Hallmark? Why cannot people be treated well everyday? Whether by a sweet and kind gesture everyday? Or a surprise token (just because?) There doesn't need to be a special occasion to celebrate and be happy in my book.
For me, I just think of both holidays as days to take stock of relationships/friendships in my life that I cherish and value. A time to be thankful (am I sure I am not mixing this up with Thanksgiving ), but to be more contemplative. I find that I am grateful to those in my life who have contributed whether the good , bad and the ugly. All experiences and people have culminated in creating the current me and I eagerly continue to grow and change as a result.
I agree with the phrase told to kids, "Sharing is caring." For me, to share with others and have them feel good makes me feel good. Having others around you feel good is what it is all about for me. You are affected by the company you keep. I have been blessed by many angels in my life.
I come from the school of doing nice simple gestures because I want to impart joy and happiness to that other person. Something must be said about a good ole snail mail hand written note as it is has become a lost form of communication amongst this modern revolution of text messaging, IM, and email. Or giving a small gift to someone (just because) that you saw that reminded you of them. These surprises are wonderful and great to me so as people say, "Treat others how you want to be treated."
So I do not really buy into these commercial holidays though I confess I still write Christmas Cards by hand. I do so as a way to maintain bonds with friends I normally do not have the chance to see or chat with more frequently. Plus I get lots of personal mail during Christmas time, I must say it sure beats only getting bills in the mail.
As for me, I will continue to operate as I always do, doing small gestures here and there when I can.
Why does it only have to be a few token days people are treated well due to the dictation of Hallmark? Why cannot people be treated well everyday? Whether by a sweet and kind gesture everyday? Or a surprise token (just because?) There doesn't need to be a special occasion to celebrate and be happy in my book.
For me, I just think of both holidays as days to take stock of relationships/friendships in my life that I cherish and value. A time to be thankful (am I sure I am not mixing this up with Thanksgiving ), but to be more contemplative. I find that I am grateful to those in my life who have contributed whether the good , bad and the ugly. All experiences and people have culminated in creating the current me and I eagerly continue to grow and change as a result.
I agree with the phrase told to kids, "Sharing is caring." For me, to share with others and have them feel good makes me feel good. Having others around you feel good is what it is all about for me. You are affected by the company you keep. I have been blessed by many angels in my life.
I come from the school of doing nice simple gestures because I want to impart joy and happiness to that other person. Something must be said about a good ole snail mail hand written note as it is has become a lost form of communication amongst this modern revolution of text messaging, IM, and email. Or giving a small gift to someone (just because) that you saw that reminded you of them. These surprises are wonderful and great to me so as people say, "Treat others how you want to be treated."
So I do not really buy into these commercial holidays though I confess I still write Christmas Cards by hand. I do so as a way to maintain bonds with friends I normally do not have the chance to see or chat with more frequently. Plus I get lots of personal mail during Christmas time, I must say it sure beats only getting bills in the mail.
As for me, I will continue to operate as I always do, doing small gestures here and there when I can.
Monday, February 13, 2006
Pounded by Snow and the weekend wrap up
Yesterday was the perfect day to get a Nor'easter. At least no one needed to rush to work or school resulting in safer and emptier road conditions. According to a variety of sources, Central Park received 26.9 inches compared the prior record of 26.4 back from the 1940's! On top of that, a Turkish Airlines plane skidded when it tried to set off from JFK airport. But I am glad everyone on board was safe and no one was hurt.
My roomie went out and sledded at the nearby hill/playground. He had lots of fun but admitted that he needed a face mask as the snow kept pelting his face and it was not as fun causing him not to see. Lots of neighborhood kids were out and about playing and making snow men. I just kept myself ensconced in the warmth of our apartment.
On Saturday, I went and volunteered at 10 Maple Place at Mei Wah to ring in the New Year with other volunteers. I had not been there in 3 years and some of the residents remembered me. It was good to see some of them for example Mr and Mrs Chan who live on the fifth floor. We hung out with the residents, held a raffle, served lunch and had prizes and some games too.
After wards, some of the volunteers went to the Winter Festival on the Commons and tried some Vermont Syrup and Cabot Cheese. There were Ski/sledding options but we decided to head to a nearby cafe/bakery in Beacon Hill instead. It was very cold on Saturday, one of the colder days I have experienced this winter. I felt not well after wards that I went home and slept for 12 hours. Luckily I felt recovered by Sunday morning (waking up at 6:30am!).
On Friday, I had some friends over for dinner and then we watched Broke Back Mountain at the Coolidge Corner Theater. I served some Japanese style cold tofu (I just learned from my friend the previous weekend), Sweet Chili Wings and then vermicelli noodles with shrimp and veggies and the sweet ending were parfaits my sister made. There were Cranberry/Orange scones as takeaways for later. The highlight of the night was reconnecting with my friends/tomodachi/chinggu Kako chan and Yujin shi.
My roomie went out and sledded at the nearby hill/playground. He had lots of fun but admitted that he needed a face mask as the snow kept pelting his face and it was not as fun causing him not to see. Lots of neighborhood kids were out and about playing and making snow men. I just kept myself ensconced in the warmth of our apartment.
On Saturday, I went and volunteered at 10 Maple Place at Mei Wah to ring in the New Year with other volunteers. I had not been there in 3 years and some of the residents remembered me. It was good to see some of them for example Mr and Mrs Chan who live on the fifth floor. We hung out with the residents, held a raffle, served lunch and had prizes and some games too.
After wards, some of the volunteers went to the Winter Festival on the Commons and tried some Vermont Syrup and Cabot Cheese. There were Ski/sledding options but we decided to head to a nearby cafe/bakery in Beacon Hill instead. It was very cold on Saturday, one of the colder days I have experienced this winter. I felt not well after wards that I went home and slept for 12 hours. Luckily I felt recovered by Sunday morning (waking up at 6:30am!).
On Friday, I had some friends over for dinner and then we watched Broke Back Mountain at the Coolidge Corner Theater. I served some Japanese style cold tofu (I just learned from my friend the previous weekend), Sweet Chili Wings and then vermicelli noodles with shrimp and veggies and the sweet ending were parfaits my sister made. There were Cranberry/Orange scones as takeaways for later. The highlight of the night was reconnecting with my friends/tomodachi/chinggu Kako chan and Yujin shi.
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Second Spoonful of Ginger
2nd Annual A Spoonful of Ginger
This past Wednesday, I volunteered at a great event. It was the second annual "A Spoonful of Ginger" at the State Room in downtown Boston on the 33rd floor. There were gorgeous views of downtown and the big dig but also wonderful people and chefs gathered to promote a wonderful cause for the renowned Joslin Diabetes Center AADI (Asian American Diabetes Initiative) lead by Dr. George King and Dr. William Hsu. Event chair Leverett Wing once again organized a wonderful event with lots of help from a great team of volunteers to make it a resounding success. Wonderful food was to be sampled for attendees from offerings ranging from nigiri, chapchae, peking duck, wheat dumplings, ginger cream puffs dipped in chocolate to name a few. There were a number of wonderful items up for bid at the silent auction ranging from a photo from the original negative of JFK and Jackie Kennedy in Hyannisport, Sox tickets, Pats tickets in CLUB 2, Spa night and much more. Local celebrity chefs and restaurants lent their time and names to this wonderful even from Jasper White (looking great of Summer Shack), Ming Tsai (Blue Ginger) and Joanne Chang (Flour Bakery) along with other restaurants from Fugakyu, Oga, Clio, Radius, Changso to name a few. Janet Wu of channel 7 news was on hand to lend her support as emcee for this wonderful event.
I am glad I was able to be on hand to support this cause and thanks to my friends and their friends for coming out to assist as well. The energy was great and there were many people on hand from the community and spotted in attendance were Veronica Chao (editor of the Improper Bostonian) and Shirley Chan ( the Asian Task force Against Domestic Violence).
One of the big sponsors was Sunstar Products and in addition a special guest chef flew in from Osaka, Japan to prepare some two special low calorie dishes that were wonderful. There was some lovely wine tastings supplied by Wine Botega (North End) chosen for their delightful compatibility to Asian cuisine flavors.
This past Wednesday, I volunteered at a great event. It was the second annual "A Spoonful of Ginger" at the State Room in downtown Boston on the 33rd floor. There were gorgeous views of downtown and the big dig but also wonderful people and chefs gathered to promote a wonderful cause for the renowned Joslin Diabetes Center AADI (Asian American Diabetes Initiative) lead by Dr. George King and Dr. William Hsu. Event chair Leverett Wing once again organized a wonderful event with lots of help from a great team of volunteers to make it a resounding success. Wonderful food was to be sampled for attendees from offerings ranging from nigiri, chapchae, peking duck, wheat dumplings, ginger cream puffs dipped in chocolate to name a few. There were a number of wonderful items up for bid at the silent auction ranging from a photo from the original negative of JFK and Jackie Kennedy in Hyannisport, Sox tickets, Pats tickets in CLUB 2, Spa night and much more. Local celebrity chefs and restaurants lent their time and names to this wonderful even from Jasper White (looking great of Summer Shack), Ming Tsai (Blue Ginger) and Joanne Chang (Flour Bakery) along with other restaurants from Fugakyu, Oga, Clio, Radius, Changso to name a few. Janet Wu of channel 7 news was on hand to lend her support as emcee for this wonderful event.
I am glad I was able to be on hand to support this cause and thanks to my friends and their friends for coming out to assist as well. The energy was great and there were many people on hand from the community and spotted in attendance were Veronica Chao (editor of the Improper Bostonian) and Shirley Chan ( the Asian Task force Against Domestic Violence).
One of the big sponsors was Sunstar Products and in addition a special guest chef flew in from Osaka, Japan to prepare some two special low calorie dishes that were wonderful. There was some lovely wine tastings supplied by Wine Botega (North End) chosen for their delightful compatibility to Asian cuisine flavors.
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Anti Super Bowl weekend
This past weekend was great reconnecting with a good friend who was here in Boston for training. I got to meet some of her colleagues---one was hilarious and I loved her Brit accent. We got to work out (I need to do more of that---don't we all?) and chill. Tried a new Vietnamese place in Dorchester my friends did not think was up to their usual standards. I defer to their expertise and palate.
Saturday night, checked out a Korean restaurant in Union Square that replaced the former HOMETOWN around the corner from Wu Chon. I was with a big group, it is a good sign even on a very rainy Saturday night the place was busy. We were the only almost all non Korean group there. Lucky for us, Susie ordered in Korean for us. We got Tong Mon doo,ja jang myun, bulgoki, seafood pancake, chapchae, kimchi chigae and other great food. I loved the homey atmosphere plus they have another place in Allston on Brighton Ave but that is more focused on Ja Jang Myun.
Sunday started out nice and sunny and a gal day out brunch in the North End. We hit a cozy small place and noshed on pasta. I had a simple mesclun greens salad and shared a chicken gnocchi with a marinara sauce laden with sun dried tomatoes and mushrooms (yum!). This is the third year the gals have had a Super Bowl brunch in the North End. I just joined the group last year and we had a nice time together. After wards, alot of us split up and we hit Chinatown.
On Sunday, the lion and dragon troupes were out in full force going to the various Chinese businesses in Chinatown. It has been years since I participated. I saw lots of eager faces enjoying the firecrackers and the beautiful dragons blessing the various store fronts for a prosperous New Year of the dog.
Then I went over to a friends and we decided to cook and not watch the Super Bowl. Caught a Korean horror flick ---I thought it more thriller than horror with the name "Virgin Ghost." Did start on two other Korean flicks but did not finish them, I am excited about the Sword and the Moon. I am a sucker for action period pieces. Bring on the Iron Monkey or the original Wong Fei Hong series with Jet Li--those are such classics and good flicks too -not many are made to that type of quality.
Dinner we made was good--I tried grandma's recipe for braised beef shin and I made okonomiyaki but we did not have the tonkatsu sauce. We made our own "ghetto" version that had to suffice. The soup noodle turned out great and the Japanese style cold tofu was scrumptious.
Too bad weekends have to fly so quickly all the time!
Saturday night, checked out a Korean restaurant in Union Square that replaced the former HOMETOWN around the corner from Wu Chon. I was with a big group, it is a good sign even on a very rainy Saturday night the place was busy. We were the only almost all non Korean group there. Lucky for us, Susie ordered in Korean for us. We got Tong Mon doo,ja jang myun, bulgoki, seafood pancake, chapchae, kimchi chigae and other great food. I loved the homey atmosphere plus they have another place in Allston on Brighton Ave but that is more focused on Ja Jang Myun.
Sunday started out nice and sunny and a gal day out brunch in the North End. We hit a cozy small place and noshed on pasta. I had a simple mesclun greens salad and shared a chicken gnocchi with a marinara sauce laden with sun dried tomatoes and mushrooms (yum!). This is the third year the gals have had a Super Bowl brunch in the North End. I just joined the group last year and we had a nice time together. After wards, alot of us split up and we hit Chinatown.
On Sunday, the lion and dragon troupes were out in full force going to the various Chinese businesses in Chinatown. It has been years since I participated. I saw lots of eager faces enjoying the firecrackers and the beautiful dragons blessing the various store fronts for a prosperous New Year of the dog.
Then I went over to a friends and we decided to cook and not watch the Super Bowl. Caught a Korean horror flick ---I thought it more thriller than horror with the name "Virgin Ghost." Did start on two other Korean flicks but did not finish them, I am excited about the Sword and the Moon. I am a sucker for action period pieces. Bring on the Iron Monkey or the original Wong Fei Hong series with Jet Li--those are such classics and good flicks too -not many are made to that type of quality.
Dinner we made was good--I tried grandma's recipe for braised beef shin and I made okonomiyaki but we did not have the tonkatsu sauce. We made our own "ghetto" version that had to suffice. The soup noodle turned out great and the Japanese style cold tofu was scrumptious.
Too bad weekends have to fly so quickly all the time!
Monday, February 06, 2006
Year of the Dog
Wow another year has passed! This past Sunday was the start of the Year of the Dog! Every year, I have a Chinese meal with the folks. This year was no different and earlier as my folks live in Southern Mass. They came up and it was myself, them, my sis and her beau along with my roomie HF. We had a nice meal at Chinatown Seafood in Coolidge Corner.
Last Friday, I went to a beloved friend's house to her party celebrating her new kitchen and Tet. The pho was great. It was good reconnecting with people and hanging out. I love how she chose her kitchen all courtesy of IKEA save the flooring from Home Depot. I tried some Vietnamese food and it was wonderful.
Saturday night, I went to Michi Kusa located off Route 9 in Framingham with my friend Vivian. She is a sweetie, she adores travel and food as much as I do. Plus she has alot of positivity and a cute smile. The menu was basic but the fish was fresh (got a sushi/sashimi boat) and ended with a scoop of red bean and green tea ice cream. I nixed the tempura ice cream she was craving. The atmosphere was nice and with low lighting and plenty of blonde wood around the dining room.
Sunday, New Year's Day I went with a bunch of friends to Shangri La in Belmont for Taiwanese Dimsum. I tend to like Cantonese dimsum more. But the spareribs, siao lung bao, and other specialties were still great. I got to catch two good Lee Byung Hun flicks Addicted and Secret. In the first movie, he plays a brother who takes on his brother's identity to be with his wife (while his bro is in a coma). The latter film has him playing a player who has an affair with a family of three sisters. Thanks to my friend who is another Korean/Japanese movie/drama aficionado. We also grabbed dinner at Hometown in Allston/Brighton on Harvard Avenue (not far from Color and Wonderbar.) The restaurant is family owned and we got the beef and pork bulgoki, beef cold noodles and kimchi chigae. It was a ton of food. Very satisfying though and a beautiful night --nice and warm despite the rain. Caught some gelato at Athans in Washington Square which also has some great European cakes and cookies to give a taste of Europe to the locals.
This was the most active Chinese New Year in a long time for me.
Last Friday, I went to a beloved friend's house to her party celebrating her new kitchen and Tet. The pho was great. It was good reconnecting with people and hanging out. I love how she chose her kitchen all courtesy of IKEA save the flooring from Home Depot. I tried some Vietnamese food and it was wonderful.
Saturday night, I went to Michi Kusa located off Route 9 in Framingham with my friend Vivian. She is a sweetie, she adores travel and food as much as I do. Plus she has alot of positivity and a cute smile. The menu was basic but the fish was fresh (got a sushi/sashimi boat) and ended with a scoop of red bean and green tea ice cream. I nixed the tempura ice cream she was craving. The atmosphere was nice and with low lighting and plenty of blonde wood around the dining room.
Sunday, New Year's Day I went with a bunch of friends to Shangri La in Belmont for Taiwanese Dimsum. I tend to like Cantonese dimsum more. But the spareribs, siao lung bao, and other specialties were still great. I got to catch two good Lee Byung Hun flicks Addicted and Secret. In the first movie, he plays a brother who takes on his brother's identity to be with his wife (while his bro is in a coma). The latter film has him playing a player who has an affair with a family of three sisters. Thanks to my friend who is another Korean/Japanese movie/drama aficionado. We also grabbed dinner at Hometown in Allston/Brighton on Harvard Avenue (not far from Color and Wonderbar.) The restaurant is family owned and we got the beef and pork bulgoki, beef cold noodles and kimchi chigae. It was a ton of food. Very satisfying though and a beautiful night --nice and warm despite the rain. Caught some gelato at Athans in Washington Square which also has some great European cakes and cookies to give a taste of Europe to the locals.
This was the most active Chinese New Year in a long time for me.
Thursday, February 02, 2006
Engagements, babies and the circle of life
This year I have had four good friends get engaged and a few friends have their first or second babies. I guess that goes with the circle of life.
When we are young, we always want to be older. When we are older we want to look younger. It definitely doesn't help that Hollywood prizes young, toned athletic bodies and faces that are frozen with botox. How many women in Hollywood do not have a frozen smile? I think looking natural and great is something akin to a rare bird nowadays.
When I think of the usual person's life plan--be born, go to school, try to get into a good school, get a good job, find a nice partner/wife/husband, get engaged, then married, then have kids or adopt, raise them, then get retired . Then the cycle starts all over again.
I must say ignorance is bliss in some cases such as when you are a child and when you eat. You just eat not worrying or caring about carbs, grams of fat, or if you hadn't done your cardio for the day. Also taxes and bills are not something you deal with as you are of age to worry. Just playing with friends and going to school to keep up your grades are big concerns. Even then, being a kid is not easy as we all know other kids can be very cruel. Especially to those who do not fit in, are awkward, or very different from them. I know growing up I had my share of slurs and glares. I know of others who were beat up, picked on, teased mercilessly just because they were "not one of us". Life is not fair.
Being an adult has its set of problems too if you are single you are constantly asked how come you are not dating. Or how come you are not married, or if you are married how come you do not have any kids yet. Is there any sign of relief for people from constant bombardment of questions even though their hearts and intentions are in the right place?
But these things will always occur and reoccur, just have to grin and bear it. For me, I just grin and bear it and control how I can react to these situations. Not everything is within your control, but you come out a happier person being more positive and not dwelling on the many matters that bother us.
When we are young, we always want to be older. When we are older we want to look younger. It definitely doesn't help that Hollywood prizes young, toned athletic bodies and faces that are frozen with botox. How many women in Hollywood do not have a frozen smile? I think looking natural and great is something akin to a rare bird nowadays.
When I think of the usual person's life plan--be born, go to school, try to get into a good school, get a good job, find a nice partner/wife/husband, get engaged, then married, then have kids or adopt, raise them, then get retired . Then the cycle starts all over again.
I must say ignorance is bliss in some cases such as when you are a child and when you eat. You just eat not worrying or caring about carbs, grams of fat, or if you hadn't done your cardio for the day. Also taxes and bills are not something you deal with as you are of age to worry. Just playing with friends and going to school to keep up your grades are big concerns. Even then, being a kid is not easy as we all know other kids can be very cruel. Especially to those who do not fit in, are awkward, or very different from them. I know growing up I had my share of slurs and glares. I know of others who were beat up, picked on, teased mercilessly just because they were "not one of us". Life is not fair.
Being an adult has its set of problems too if you are single you are constantly asked how come you are not dating. Or how come you are not married, or if you are married how come you do not have any kids yet. Is there any sign of relief for people from constant bombardment of questions even though their hearts and intentions are in the right place?
But these things will always occur and reoccur, just have to grin and bear it. For me, I just grin and bear it and control how I can react to these situations. Not everything is within your control, but you come out a happier person being more positive and not dwelling on the many matters that bother us.
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